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The anatomy of your anatomy

The Anatomy of Your Anatomy

If you have a vagina, or know someone who does, you should continue reading.

As promised from my last post, I am going to attempt to explain and illustrate the anatomy of the female genitalia….aka “your bits” (if you’re a female that is). It is important to understand what you own, and as I type it will become apparent why.

It is also important to understand why I did not go any further than grade 9 art. As I draw it will become apparent why.

If you are a man and are thinking of switching off because this is irrelevant to you directly……keep reading. You might not own the bits yourself, but certainly someone you know and love just might (think of your mother….see you definitely know one person!). And you might just solve a big calamity someday by understanding what’s going on down there, and sharing some insight into common misconceptions.

So while it is quiet, and raining, on a Friday night (rather…

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Male Menopause – When Your Man is on His Period

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He’s tried performance enhancing pills and nothing works. He’s tired. He’s moody. He won’t get into the mood. And now he’s acting like a grumpy old man.

We have been saying it for years. Men go through some form of menopause as they age. Their testosterone levels decrease, and they start acting funny. Whether it’s mood swings, unexplained aches and pains or change in sexual function, men still go through what doctors call Andropause.

Man oh Manopause

There is hope! Just as women have treatments to ease the symptoms of menopause, so do men. Men can talk to their physicians and ask their doctors for an exam to test whether or not their testosterone levels are low. If that is the case, they can consider Testosterone Replacement Therapy. A combination of antidepressants and TRT will help relieve decreases in libido, depression and fatigue. Keep in mind this treatment combination does have adverse side effects especially if you suffer from prostate cancer that you may want to discuss with your doctor.

What do you think? Do you know of any men who act like they go through “periods”? Let us know.

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July 19, 2015 1

Zero F*cks Given! Woman Crashes Car While Masturbating

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Masturbation. The simple art of self-pleasure in the confines of secluded and private locations has landed some people in a lot of hot water. Recently, a woman was reportedly left red faced and bare bottomed after she reportedly crashes her Mini Cooper into the back of an M & J Seafood van. Fortunately, or unfortunately, the newly hired driver for M & J Seafood Specialists was driving a vehicle which came equipped with a rear facing camera and caught EVERYTHING.

The driver was called into the office and was afraid of getting fired due to the accident. He’d been on his first shift after looking for work for ages.
“The bosses told him it wasn’t his fault and then said ‘Have you seen this?’. They all had a good laugh. Apparently the lady was pretty fit.”
The business, which refused to ID the driver or release the video, added: “The matter is in the hands of our insurers.”

According to reports from the Maravi Post, and the Brobible the anonymous woman quickly closed her pants and put away her Rampant BOB (Battery Operated Boyfriend) and left the scene.

Not so fortunate for Stephen Theyer, a 44 year old serial flasher, who was locked up for nine months after he was seen masturbating on two occasions in a waiting room.

July 14, 2015 1

O! Yes! Top 7 Benefits of Orgasms

Top 7 Benefits of Ogasms

O! Yes! 7 Benefits of Orgasms

Let’s talk. There are many people who love sex. They really love sex, and we love them too. It’s the best use of their time, actually. These aren’t the type of people who use the old headache excuse to avoid sex, these people – our people – love to get down and dirty.

But did you know that there are many advantages to having sex. Not the typical procreation perks, but real health benefits. When you’re having sex, and you’re doing all of the right things, it leads to orgams, and orgasms, my friends lead to wonderful health benefits, even when engaging in self pleasure.

Orgasms not only feel good to you they are also good for you. According to the experts, not just us, the act of achieving an orgasm effects your well-being in unique ways.

So no more excuses for not attempting to achieve an orgasm. Having an orgasm is a tried and true method to reduce stress, that with a little forethought, can be achieved anywhere.

Just think how healthier you become after every orgasm.

Orgasm benefits

Pain reliever – It hurts so good. Endorphins increase your pain tolerance by 70%.

Anti-aging bonus – Dah-ling, you look mahvelous. Regular orgasms release DHEA (DEHYDROEPIANDROESTERONE) – don’t worry about how to pronounce it, just know that it restores skin, repairs damaged tissues, and helps the skin look more youthful and plump. It’s like the fountain of youth is within your grasp.

Reduces stress and depression – Going to the spa is nice to de-stress, but going to get laid is better. Another chemical released during orgasm is oxytocin a poweful stress reliever.

Improves memory and brain function – now who’s the smarty pants. During climax, your blood circulation increases which helps transport oxygen rich nutrients to the brain.

Sleep Aid – Who doesn’t want to fall asleep after a great lay? Oxytocin the stress relieving lovers hormone, and endorphins are released promoting restful sleep and encouraging tension release.

Boosts immune system – Because it’s cold and flu season somewhere. High levels of immunoglobulin A, protects us from the common cold.

Aids in weight loss – skip the gym, go for the big O! Orgasms curb your appetite with the release of dopamine. You can also get a good cardio workout during a half hour of sex burning at least 65 calories per position, per session. The more you do it the better it is for you.

Torn Between Two Lovers – Talking To Your Partner About An Open Relationship

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Open Relationships; A fantasy some people think of. How do you start talking to your partner about having an open relationship? Being pleased by your lover and another simultaneously is extremely erotic. But what happens when your otherwise reserved partner admits that having a threesome is something they want to experience, not just in their head? So many questions come up? Does my partner want to live out this fantasy because I am not satisfying them sexually? Is this the beginning of the end of our relationship? Could this be an excuse that my partner is using to walk away from our relationship?

Three’s Company.

Not the sassy sitcom with the two female and sole male roommate from the seventies, we’re talking about what happens when people agree to an open marriage or open relationship? When two people make the decision to bring in a third (or more) partner can be both exciting and frightening. To ease that transition, try reading The Threesome Handbook – A practical guide to sleeping with three by Vicky Vantoch. Her book provides a practical guide to sleeping with three. It gives perks of the poly-amorous lifestyle, especially how to prevent jealousy and finding the perfect third partner for BOTH of you.

But here are some basic tips for those interested in exploring the threesome lifestyle:

Don’t include a friend, family member or co-worker. (you have to deal with them on a regular basis and if things didn’t go well, you may have created a mess).
Do NOT include your ex!
Take a trip. Find someone who is willing and someone you won’t have to see on a regular basis.
Remember who the original couple is. Tend to your partner’s needs and keep in mind that the third person is just extra, not a replacement. This means that the third person shouldn’t linger in the bed with you and your partner.
Reassure your partner. What you two are doing is for the pleasure of you both. Tell your partner how much your experience turns you on, Your partner is your main priority, so make sure to tell them.
Practice safe sex. Let’s face it, STI’s are still out there and the person you bring into your relationship may have a dormant infection that they didn’t tell you about. Plus there are so many fun condoms in different textures to choose from.
Set up guidelines on what is acceptable and discuss them with your partner BEFOREHAND.

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Discover the Mystery of the Female Orgasm

Mystery of female orgasm

Pressed or caressed the right way, a woman can be transported to such ecstasy, that for a few seconds, the rest of the world ceases to exist. But get it wrong and pain, frustration, or dull nothingness can ensue. It’s a stark contrast to a man’s experience; so long as they can get an erection, a few minutes of vigorous stimulation generally results in ejaculation.

The big O! The great climax moment that you hear about, read about, and sometimes, dream about. The Mystery of the Female Orgasm doesn’t have to be out of your reach any longer.

When trying to bring her to her peak of climax, pay attention to little tell tale signs about her body. When pleasuring your woman ask yourself these questions. Is she becoming more relaxed and tense at the same time? Is she becoming more vocal? Chances are, as long as you are someone that she knows and is interested in, she is about to have an orgasm.

June 29, 2015 0

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June 19, 2015 0

6 Tips for Great Anal Sex – Rear Door Entry Lovemaking

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You’ve heard the girls whispering about it. Anal sex. It’s true, every day people are engaging in and enjoying anal sex. You wonder what is soooo good about anal sex that is driving people to incredible depths of ecstasy. Rear entry love is supposed to be taboo and it’s supposed to hurt, right? Wrong!

First things first when it comes to having great anal sex. Relax; the anus is full of sensitive nerve endings that feel amazing when stimulated by a tongue, finger, penis, or toy. Before engaging in anal sex, you should be completely prepared – mentally and physically. Foreplay before anal sex is not only fun, but downright necessary.

Before you engage in anal sex or any sexual activity, there are a few basic rules.

Cleanliness is next to, well you know the rest.

You want your sexual encounters to be memorable. You remember what the person had on and you remember their scent. Ever have someone walk by and their enticing scent made you want to be closer to them? Some people have a naturally appealing smell. But there is nothing worse than having someone near you, let alone on top of you smelling horrific!

LUBRICATION – Lube Me or Leave Me Alone

We cannot stress this enough. Use plenty of lube. Unlike the vagina and the mouth, the anus does not provide its own lubrication. We recommend using a silicone based lube. Silicone lasts longer than water based lubes and does not dry out or get yucky. If you are using a latex safe condom, even though it says “lubricated”, for the purpose of anal sex, the lube on the condom isn’t enough, so always add more.

Love Me Long Time. Please.

Before you and your partner get started, foreplay is crucial when it comes to anal sex. Play with your anus. It’s a great idea to get to know your body and find out what feels good to you ahead of time. Insert a well lubricated object (just make sure there are no jagged edges ie fingernails, damaged toys) inside of you or have your partner massage the rim of your anus. When you are both ready to take your sex-ploration further, consider safe anilingus activity (oral sex of the anus – or simply put RIMMING) with your partner. Use a dental dam when performing this sexual act or you can cut open a condom and place it over the opening of the anus to protect yourself from bacteria normally found in the anus.

STOP! In The Name of All That is Great!!!

The prospect of having anal sex is as exciting for the giver as well as the receiver. Make sure your partner proceeds with caution! When you are ready, your anus will relax to let you know when the time is right. When that time comes, your partner should slowly insert a toy, finger, or their penis inside of you. A penis, even a toy, is a large object to insert inside of an anus, so be patient. It may seem like it is taking forever to completely enter you, but the rewards are well worth it. After you are relaxed from wonderful anal foreplay, allow your partner to enter you partially giving your body time to adjust to the size and fit. Breathe slowly until you are relaxed and you feel yourself opening up more. When you do open more, allow your partner to go deeper. Adding additional lubrication if necessary. If you need a break, have your partner withdraw partially, then attempt re-entry going deeper with each stroke.

It Seems Like You’re Ready

If at any time during anal sex, you feel extreme pain or discomfort, STOP. That is your body telling you that you are at risk for damage. Let your partner know that you need a break. Take some time, and when you are ready, add more lube and go for it. embracedesires.com does not endorse desensitizing products for anal sex.

Now that you have the basic tips for great anal sex, experiment with different sex positions.

We aren’t alone in our excitement of anal sex. The people at Kinkly.com have something to say about great anal sex positions. We’ve shared a couple of our favorite and amazing sex positions with you.

Missionary

You get to look into your lovers eyes while they prepare to enter to enter you from the back, except you are watching their facial expressions. That’s HOT! Relax. Rub on your clit for an incredible experience. In the missionary positions, your back gets curved, making it easier to enter the rectum as it straightens out.

Face Down, A$$ Up!

Ah yes, the classic doggy style position for anal sex. Not only does he get an amazing view of you spread open with his manhood entering you, but in this position, the G-Spot gets an extra treat as it is easier to hit and he gets to go deeper. Yasss, honey!

Most importantly, be safe, be creative any time you are engaging in any sexual act. Make love fun. Incorporating lube and toys can be a fun and sensual accessory to your ana lovemaking experience.

Indulge your passions. Embrace your desires.

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Why you should take Your Lovelife to the Next level during the Springtime

We are sensual beings. Be prepared. Take your love life to the next level. I did. Take yoga to increase your strength, stamina and flexibility. Try a pole dancing class or buy a pole along with a how-to dvd on technique and practice practice practice. Learn strip tease techniques, give your partner a private show and end with a lap dance. Get a Kegels training dvd and practice practice practice. They can be done anywhere and any time. As your pelvic muscles are strengthened you and your partner will thank you for it. Learn how to properly give an erotic massage on the body including the genitals.The ecstasy gotten from that type of massage is amazing and tremendously satisfying. Oral sex is better when you have a greater knowledge of what to do, how to do it and how long to do it. Learn your partners body response to your tongue, teeth and lips. Then learn how to take your time, and you will have a long, sensual oral session and give your partner multiple orgasms. Who wouldn’t enjoy that?? I found a dvd on penis enlargement and tried some techniques on my lover during our love making sessions; without his knowledge I might add. His already long strong cock grew longer, wider and harder for longer periods of time. His ejaculations became stronger and harder and his stamina is like that of an Olympic champion. Eat foods that are good for you and good to you.

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