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Improving Relationships, One Fucking Couple at a Time

Improving Relationships, One Fucking Couple at a Time

This One Secret On How to Turn Your Dull Relationship into a Frisky Fling Will Have You Thanking Us Over and Over Again

Talk to me. It’s so simple and oh so sexy!

Talk to me.  This is the huge secret and magic formula.  You just really need to take some time and talk to your partner in a fully engaged conversation. What’s sexier than a person who can hold their own in a cohesive discussion?  Fresh breath.  But that is another story.

Attraction may start with the eyes, but it grows in the brain.  If you can verbally interact effectively with your lover, there is nothing sexier and you can get on the communicate to stimulate train much faster. You will stay in your lover’s mind and their body will be right there as a willing participant. 

Say goodbye to your dull and boring relationship. Talk to your partner to help them understand your point of view. They will move heaven and earth to make sure that you are satisfied, over and over, (and hopefully over) again.

You’re welcome.

Remember to Say, I Love You – National Spouse Day is January 26th

Last year, I married my first crush ever. My childhood dream. The type of relationship between two youngsters who ignore each other with the hopes that one day, one of you would speak first. It didn’t work out the way I planned.

Life went on and we married other people.  Those relationships didn’t get a happily ever after as one would have hoped, but you have to be careful of what you ask for.  For myself,  I was fortunate enough to have a child from that union who really keeps my mind SHARP.

Back to love.

Granted it took having to get divorced and subsequently playing online dating roulette for my new spouse to find me.  And after several years of building our adult friendship, we finally said our  “I do’s”, and cannot recall a happier time.

Whether it’s your first, fourth (Or more – not everyone has a happily ever after) this date is for you and it’s better (read cheaper) than Valentine’s day.

National Spouses Day is observed annually on January 26th. Bet you didn’t know that.

It’s a day dedicated to recognizing our spouses everywhere.  The premise of this day is to remind us to make time for our spouse.

A simple way to celebrate National Spouse Day is to let your spouse know how thankful you are to them for –the fulfillment and security of being in a long-term relationship with them and the support and happiness that spouses can give.

This day is a time to show your spouse that you care and appreciate all of the things that he/she does for you and for the home.

One important rule:

No gifts allowed. NONE.

National Spouse Day is a non-gift giving day, and opportunity to spend time together and reconnect.  Please remember to say, “I love you.”

Why Learning to Love Yourself Will Change Your Life

Pssst! I have a secret

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I belong to a very exclusive club. Want to join?

I am the sexiest person in the world!   I know because I tell myself in the mirror every day. Each day stand in front of the mirror without a stitch on and look at myself from all angles and I tell myself how hot and sexy and awesome I am.  The more I hear it,the more I receive it, the more I believe it.  I Embrace all my flaws and turn them into assets.

Underweight? Too skinny? No problem. I can be picked up and held against a wall.  Can you?

Overweight? Love handles? No problem. I have more cushion for the pushin’.  Do you?

Overbite? You can add extra stimuli to that special kiss.

No teeth? Think vacuum suction for that special kiss.

Embrace your uniqueness! Every day let yourself know just how special and awesome and amazing you are!

Welcome to the club!

Think Being in a Long-Term Relationship is Easy? (Ahem, some of your women want you dead – but only temporarily)

Yes.  We know.

Every year, it happens.  Without fail I want to bring in the new year with someone to love, who loves me back with the same fervor, who am I kidding, I want someone who loves me more than I love them.

When you are in a committed relationship, things don’t always play out the way you imagined it should in your head.

You get comfortable.  Very comfortable.  I am talking about wearing grungy clothes comfy.  That isn’t always a bad thing, but sometimes you have to get dressed and remind your significant other WHY they were interested in you in the first place.

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Every year when it’s time to ring in the new beginning, I am the one to fall asleep.  How can you celebrate the concept of new beginnings when you are doing the same thing over and over?  It isn’t an easy task.  We should want to celebrate a new love interest, even if that love interest has been in your life longer than your favorite shoes.

It’s time to regain the love.  I want to fall in love with my partner and myself again.Loving couple outside

I find myself asking these questions: “How did we fall in love the first place?”  “How and did we actually fall out of love?”

In this New Year, I am taking control.  It’s time to stop the internal arguments and really listen to my significant other. I am renewing my vow to take time out to appreciate their point of view, even if it is one that I don’t agree with.

Life is too short. Will I really be better of without them? Or do I just need some time to be alone and reflect – I read somewhere that every once in a while, certain personality types really need to unplug and be alone.  Sometimes, (brace yourselves because this might sound morbid) when things get really intense between my dear partner, I plan funerals, widow crying at funeralI am talking about complete services including who will sing and what will I wear.  I even plan out my new life.  And the thought being without this person hits – HARD.  I imagine how lonely I would be. I know the heartache would be unbearable.   Feeling that I alienated myself, intentionally just for a moment of solitude just seems self- serving. Then I stop to make myself remember why I decided to be with this incredible person who has been with me and all of my crazy and realize that I really am better with them, than without.

It’s a new year.  Time to try something new to embrace all that is waiting in 2017.

How do you handle your long-term relationship?  Do you feel like you are stuck sometimes, but still love your partner?

Let us know in the comments.

 

Proof that Relationships are Confusing (And also very satisfying)

What is it with relationships?

In my teens, I had no idea what it was.

In my teens, I had no idea what it was.

In my twenties, I thought I had a plan for it.

In my thirties, I just knew I had it figured out.

In my forties, I wondered what happened to it.

In my fifties…well now I’m just waiting for it.

I still have no clue what it is that I am supposed to be/do/have.

What do I know?

I know that sometimes I just want to be held.

I know that sometimes I just want to hold you.

I know that sometimes I want to be as unhealthy as I possibly can.

I know that sometimes I just want to run away.. and I may even invite you to come along.

I know that you are my best friend and hopefully my last lover.

Simply put…Embrace me while I Embrace you.

5 Ways Our Holiday Gift Guide Can Find You the Love of Your (sex) Life

It’s that time of year when the holidays are staring you right in the face!  What are we going to do when we have so much love to give but not enough lovers to share it with?  Holiday Gift Guide

Read our Holiday Gift Guide and discover five bestsellers that will help you find the (self) love of your life!

First, as we reflect on the previous loves of our lives, we are fondly reminded of the people we loved, who happened to love us and other people at the same time.

Womanizer

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Normally we would stay away from anyone who is categorized as a womanizer, but this is not human!   With 5 intensity levels, and deceptively focused, this popular and sexy device has women going insane in less time than it takes to boil an egg.

EVA

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Any time you can experience strap free and non-intrusive stimulation, you get a bonus.  Eva’s flexible, smooth and silicone wings allow her to snuggle comfortably inside of a woman’s labia majora offering satisfying couples or solo play stimulating.

 

210th EXPERIENCE Body Mask

 

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Cleanses and nourishes the skin. This body mask contains China Clay which helps exfoliate the skin. The Body mask has a hydrating action, making the skin feel silky soft and smooth after use. Elegantly packaged in black glass.

BEAU COLOGNE

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Ready to play?  Unlock your partner’s carnal desires with Beau. The aphrodisiac and pheromone infused cologne will draw her in with the masculine musk fragrance, and show off your ruggedness

Tres Magnifique!

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You want to add the delicate and stunning Desir Metallic Back and Shoulder piece to adorn your body. Bijoux Indiscrets designs magnificent pieces in their Desir Metallic Collection in this metallic back and shoulder body ornament.

Which of these gifts would help your in your search to find the love of your (sex) life?  Let us know in the comments.

 

 

Are You Embarrassed by Your Fears of Commitment? 3 Simple Ways to Stop Being Afraid and Master Relationships

Commit? Who me?

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Why are people so afraid of commitment?  We commit to stuff every day. Sports teams, Department stores, Food chains, and grocery stores.  Yet ask some people to commit to a relationship and they get that deer in the headlights stare and you know the office upstairs has just closed for business.

Think about it, the most successful organizations exist because its supporters are all in.  Why not be a supporter of what will make you the most successful? Healthy, committed relationships. You know you know how.  You know you want to.  Well, consider yourself empowered to Embrace your new era of commitment.

You will  need to start small, after all doing what is healthy and right takes perseverance.  To quote a wise man from the movie, The Waterboy “You can do it!”

Commit to believing that you really can achieve your personal and professional goals.

Commit to believing that you really are worth the effort and attention.

Commit to believing that sometimes the sun really does shine just for you and rainbows are your reward for rainy days.

How to Win Big in the Relationship Lottery

Relationships are like playing the lottery…

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Remember the old lottery commercials? You know the ones that used to tell you that you have to be in it to win it? Well, relationships are a lot like that.  You have to be an active participant.  It’s not enough to have a strong desire to win and then dream about all of the things that you will be able to do once you won. Sometimes you have to embrace that every ticket will not have the winning numbers.

But if you do decide to play, then understand the rules and remember that you are supposed to have fun, and to also Indulge in yourself a little.  But you may wonder, “What are the rules”? The rules are very basic:

1.Respect yourself – understand what does and doesn’t work for you and honor that.

2.Respect your partner – remember you chose this person and which says something about your choices.

3.Respect your relationship  – no one outside of your relationship should know the intimate details of what goes on between you and your partner.

Sounds simple,but so many people lose themselves and their way trying to support relationships where there is no respect.  Where there is respect, there is the opportunity to honor, support and rollicking good times.

The same way that a winning lottery ticket can improve your life, a respectful winning relationship will vastly improve your lifestyle.  You will enjoy better health, less stress, and a more meaningful intimacy with your partner.

Did we leave out anything? Let us know in the comments.

Why the Focus in Your Relationship Should Be on YOU

It’s no secret that relationships are hard, but it is often easy to point out the flaws in a relationship that is not your own. That’s because it is no simple task to reflect on your own thoughts and actions. However, this is an essential step in maintaining healthy relationships, because you are ultimately the most important person in your relationship. While it is important to consider what your partner needs and wants, it is also integral to avoid focusing solely on your partner when you think about your relationship. Here are some strategies that will let you put the focus back on yourself to avoid taking on an unfavorable role within your partnership.

 Accept who your partner is.

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Many people try to change things about their partners, rather than accepting and embracing their quirks. Often, this behavior is actually a projection of one’s own insecurities rather than a distaste for a partner.

 Take responsibility for your actions.

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During an argument, it can be tempting to pin the blame entirely on another person. In reality, there is usually a shared responsibility for a disagreement, so you should acknowledge your role. When you claim your own actions, you can create a path to move forward instead of living with resentment for your significant other.

 Recognize and express your needs.

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I need you to listen to me!!!

Focusing on yourself is not just about recognizing negative qualities. You should take a close look at your personal needs and express these to your partner so that you are getting what you want out of your relationship. With clear expectations for both yourself and your significant other, you can seriously boost the satisfaction of your partnership.

 

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