Are You Current on the Latest Sexting Codes? CNN Insists Your Teen Uses Them

Current on sexting Codes embrace desires

Remember the simple days of chatting when you were proud to know what HRU actually meant?

According to CNN teens have become more covert in their online lingo. It’s time the parents knew what they were talking about.

CNN has come up with a list of 28 codes teens are now using some of which adults can use while they’re chatting with their own friends.

IMHO, the shortened versions of chatting drives me nuts, but hey, WDIK?

Here is the complete list of acronyms that CNN insists are sexy code messages.

Here are the three codes that we’ve used:

HRU – How Are You
IMHO – In My Honest Opinion
WDIK – What Do I Know

Have you seen any of these sexting codes before? Which ones have you used? Let us know on Facebook and Twitter.

December 9, 2014 0

World AIDS Day 2014

Focus, Partner, Achieve: An AIDS-Free Generation

On December 1, people throughout the world observe World AIDS Day, an opportunity for the global community to honor those living with HIV; the families, friends, caregivers, and communities who support them; and those who have lost their lives to AIDS.

The theme for 2014 – “Focus, Partner, Achieve: An AIDS-Free Generation” – reflects the drive to focus on interventions that work and partner with a broad range of stakeholders to achieve control of the epidemic and move closer to an AIDS-free generation.

Currently, an estimated 34 million people around the globe are living with AIDS, and 35 million have died from the virus.

“World AIDS Day is a day dedicated to raising awareness of the AIDS pandemic caused by the HIV virus through education on its prevention and control.” qweerty.com

It was the the brain child of two public information officers for the Global Programme at the World Health Organization in Geneva Switzerlan, James W. Bunn and Thomas Netter. They presented heir idea to the Director of the Global Programme of AIDS (UNAIDS in August 1987 who approved it and agreed with Mr. Bunn’s recommendation that the first observance should be December 1. 1988. The date was chosen to maximize coverage of World AIDS Day by western media as it was long enough after the US elections and far enough in advance of the Christmas holidays.

On November 25, 2014, the United States Centers for Disease Control released its latest report on the HIV Continuum of Care in a new edition of Vital Signs, which includes a Morbidity and Mortality Weekly Report (MMWR), Vital Signs: HIV Diagnosis, Care, and Treatment Among Persons Living with HIV — United States, 2011, and an accompanying fact sheet, HIV Care Saves Lives, Viral Suppression is Key. Visit the Vital Signs website to learn more. According to the Vital Signs report, of the 1.2 million Americans living with HIV in 2011, less than a third had their virus under control through effective care and treatment.
To find out more about the CDC and it’s efforts, in the fight against AIDS, click here

Initially the theme of World AIDS Day was on children and young people to help remove some of the stigma surrounding AIDS and boost recognition of it as a family disease. It has been very effective in doing just that. In 1997 UNAIDS began a campaign to focus on year round communications, prevention and education. The campaigns have been so effective that Popes John II and Benedict XVI have each released greeting message for patients and doctors on World AIDS Day.

Since 2007, The United States White House has been observing the day with a 28 foot red ribbon, the symbol AIDS, displayed on the buidings’ North Portico. Read and share the U.S Presidential Proclamation recognizing World AIDS Day 2014.

The red ribbon, the familiar symbol of AIDS, was created by a New York based group of artist and AIDS Activists called Visual AIDS Artists Caucus. Their goal was to create a symbol that would demonstrate compassion for people both those who were living with AIDS and their caregivers. Red was chosen because of its “connection to blood and the idea of passion” – anger and love.

Each year the World AIDS Campaign chooses World AIDS Day theme. In 2012 a four year theme was adopted for Worlds Aids Day; Getting To Zero; Zero new HIV infections, Zero deaths from AIDS-related illness, Zero discrimination. The themes are used year long to further awareness and become better educated about this disease. It been very effective as different organizations, governments and individuals are rethinking their idea and treatment of AIDS, AIDS patients and their families.

An example of the Getting to Zero theme being applied is seen in “90-90-90 Initiative” launched by UNAIDS in September of this year to end the AIDS epidemic. The “90-90-90” initiative sets global goals for countries to increase HIV testing so that 90% of all people in that country living with HIV know their status, 90% of those who are HIV positive are offered treatment and 90% of those on antiretoviral medicine are virally suppressed by 2020.

We are so grateful for their efforts and hope that soon, because of their efforts AIDS will be cured.
To find out how you can get more information, including where to get tested and treatment, visit aids.gov

December 1, 2014 0

5 Tips for Taking Better Selfies

1. Skip the Smiling Faces – Show off Your Shoes!

When you see a selfie of someone, do you also wonder about their footwear? We do. We see so many great looking selfies of people who obviously put a lot of thought into their poses, but we often wonder about the next great accessory – their shoes. Think of the times you saw someone with an amazing outfit and realized that the shoes made the outfit? It happens all of the time. We put so much thought into purchasing our shoes and selecting the perfect pair to go along with our outfits, that it is only right to feature them.

2. Accents Make Photos Look Like They Should.

When you are trying to eliminate the appearance of a double chin, extend your chin forward to accentuate your jaw line. You can also remove the double chin in your photos by taking a photo with the camera raised slightly above your head and looking UP at about a 45 degree angle – this will further accentuate your jaw line.

3. Take a Better Selfie in 3 – 2 – 1!

Most recent smart phones already have a built in timer in its settings. Set the timer on your camera phone (or regular camera) and practice to see how long it takes you to get the perfect pose and Pose for the camera – SNAP!

4. Lights, Camera, Action!

The lighting for your selfie is what will set your photos apart from the crowd, if done properly.

INDOORS: When you are taking selfie pictures indoors, go for natural lighting. Find a window and stand with the sunlight falling onto your face – not behind you. Also, when you are taking selfies inside, make sure that you are standing in front of a plain background. This could be a wall, or a plain sheet, large enough to cover the area behind you. Invest in a large white poster board, the kind used for science projects or use your car’s sun visor to reflect the light. (Just make sure that it has a silver or white surface).

OUTDOORS: Find a shaded area. If the sun is too bright, you will be squinting which is not attractive at all.

5. Have Fun!

After all, you are capturing memories of you enjoying life and sharing moments with friends and loved ones. So relax, indulge in the festivities and take all the selfies you want. Just remember, no duck lips.

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November 25, 2014 1

HOW TO MOVE ON AFTER THE RELATIONSHIP IS OVER

You woke up this morning and realized….it’s over. There’s no going back. You are no longer half of a couple, you are now single.

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Single.. in a world of couples. While it may seem like the end of the world, IT. IS. NOT. THE. END. OF. THE. WORLD.

But how would anyone know how to move on after the relationship is over?

First don’t play the blame game. It wasn’t either one’s fault. You simply weren’t meant to be each others ‘forever’ person. It doesn’t’ matter if one was faithful and the other wasn’t, if one was abusive or abused (and abuse occurs whenever a person is made to feel less than of human by another person), or if the relationship stopped ‘feeling’ like a relationship. The simple truth is.. IT’S OVER.

What do you do now? Accept the fact that you haven’t YET met your soulmate. Work on improving YOU so you will be ready when you do meet your ‘forever” person.

Secondly, do not speak negatively to anyone about your ex.

Third, do not wallow in self pity and hurt.

Fourth, do not play the coulda, woulda, shoulda game. There is NOTHING you ‘coulda’ done, ‘woulda’ done or ‘shoulda’ done that would have changed the ultimate demise of the relationship. Most importantly, do not play any games at all. That only hurts and stagnates your emotional and mental growth.

Lastly, do not hold onto every last memento you ever received from your ex. Getting rid of some things helps in the healing process. It is a process where you alone determine the length of the process and its success.

You see, the power is in you to change and grow beyond the raw emotion you feel now.

Avoid emotional suicide; you need time to recover from this temporary situation. Do NOT under any circumstances, jump into another relationship right away! Resist the desire to replace your partner with another until you are emotionally prepared.

Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires.

So what do you do? You set a goal for yourself.

YOUR goal is growth – a deeper more powerful positive growth mentally, physically and emotionally.

♥ Take an honest, objective 20/20 hindsight look at the relationship, recognize the good parts of it and if necessary take notes on a legal pad. Embrace the wonderfully cathartic release of emotions this can be.

♥ Think kindly of your ex and all that was brought into the relationship by her/him. These are traits that are dominant in your future soulmate. Learn to appreciate those qualities. But don’t romanticize your ex. After all if it was that good, your ex wouldn’t be your ex right?

♥ Take a deep breath and realize that it is okay to be single. Recognize that you really need the time to recharge your emotional batteries as well as readjust your focus on life. This way you can better equip yourself for your beautiful future.

♥ Work on improving YOU in order for your soulmate to recognize you.

♥ Make changes in your lifestyle.

Paint your living space or add some accent fixtures.
Take a yoga class, go to a gym, modify your wardrobe (you’ve heard of ‘dress for success’, now all you need to do is ‘dress the way you want to be addressed’)
Educate your palate by taking wine and cooking classes
Learn a foreign language
Audit some college courses or go back to college and get your degree
Try something strange and different for yourself.

It’s never too late to make you a better you. And you deserve it, you wonderful person you.

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October 31, 2014 0

Celebrate Love Before Valentine’s Day

September is Pleasure Your Mate Month

When it comes to satisfying your mate, their pleasure should be your #1 priority. No need to wait for Valentine’s day in February to display love and affection when September is Pleasure Your Mate Month. We, at embracedesires.com, want to make sure that you have what you need to give your mate as much erotic pleasure as they can enjoy — not just for a month, but all year round.

New Positions

Missionary style sex positions have been performed since you first started having intercourse. Break away from ordinary vanilla sex. Try a new position to reignite passion. Embrace the sensual creature that is within you. It is easy to add mystery and intrigue into your bedroom romp. Get some inspiration from Cosmo’s 28 Mind-Blowing Lesbian Sex Positions. Or simply climb on top of your lover, and just as he thinks he will be entering you as he gazes into your beautiful eyes, turn your body facing away from him giving him a full and wondrous view of all of that junk in your trunk – yes, girl, show off your Badonk! He’ll enjoy a handful of your booty as you ride him Reverse Cowgirl style. Yee Haw

Different Locations

Talk That Talk

Technology has made it challenging to engage in stimulating conversations. Use the advancements that are at your fingertips. Send a flirty (or dirty!) text message to your partner. While you are in the nude, FaceTime your mate, Android users will have to go for video chat, and let them watch you fondle yourself. Don’t have the time to chat? Send them a sultry picture message, don’t worry about prying eyes, there are plenty of apps that can delete your message and your picture after it’s sent.

The bedroom is usually the most convenient location to make love. Change the ambiance is the bedroom is your only option. Pleasure your partner with the lights on if the lights are usually off. Notice the sweat dripping from your partner’s skin. How’s that for arousal?

Be Aware of Your Surroundings

When you are ready and able to try different locations for your sexual encounters, release your inhibitions and accept your adventurous self (be mindful of any local indecency laws in your area). Try this: Go out for a nice evening –sans panties of course, seize the opportunity for a quick scandalous tryst in the bathroom, alongside a building, on an empty train car, or a park.

If you are more of an indoors type of girl, ride your mate once you park your car in the garage. But hurry before the parking attendant comes checking on you. If you have a garage attached to your home, you are in luck, because you can just have coitus un-interruptus in your own garage.

When you finally make it home, you can have sex right there on the stairs. If you live in an apartment building, you have the heightened adrenaline rush of your neighbors walking up or down the stairs and getting a glimpse of you mid stroke.

Car

Damn those comfy bucket seats that cradles you oh so nicely! They are not the most sex friendly, we know. No one likes having the gearshift pressing so hard against their flesh that it leaves you numb, or your ass honking the horn when it gets soooo good. So it’s climbing into the backseat you two go.

Because Toys, ARE Us!

“Love has no limits (but it does have a safe word)”.

Forget sending her roses to turn her on. Surprise her with a set of sexy restraints made from sensual silk. The decadent feel of soft, smooth fabric against her skin as you bind her hands is intoxicating. Make your lover your sex slave, even if it is only for the night. Once you have your partner tied up, reach for a powerful, yet quiet vibrator and stimulate her clitoris, varying the intensity. Ladies, you can blindfold you man and slip a comfortable ring on his (no, not his finger) already stiffening manhood and enjoy his cockiness.

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August 28, 2014 0

Passing the Torch. How One Man Taught His Son To Be a Gentleman.

“To be a gentleman does not depend upon the tailor or the toilet. Good clothes are not good habits. A gentleman is just a gentle – man, — no more, no less; a diamond polished, that was first a diamond in the rough” — William Croswell Doane

When I became a husband, showing affection and treating my wife with kid gloves were things that came naturally. I never realized that my father had planted those ideas in my head years ago. At least I didn’t until my son has started paying attention to the way I treat, not only my wife, but any person of the opposite persuasion.

My son is 9 years old. I first noticed that he was paying attention last year when my wife tore her Achilles. I came home from work and he was tirelessly putting pillows under her ankle and waiting on her every need. I asked him if he was in trouble. Nope. I asked him if he was pushing for an addition to his allowance. Nope. Then why? “Because that’s what you do”, he said. Now I notice when we are out in public that my son regularly opens doors for women. And he will readily note when his kindness is not returned with a thank you.

It makes me wonder when I see some of the intolerable behavior men display towards women. And, sadly, I wonder why women put up with it. I’m not just talking about giving flowers on Valentine’s Day. Or picking up the towels after you take a shower. But I mean things like having a candlelight dinner ready before she comes home from work, kids or not. Sneaking little displays of affection like stealing a kiss in the kitchen or a little pat on the backside when you think no one is watching. But that’s the thing. They are. I was. And I loved it. And I’m assuming my son does, too. I see him around other people, especially girls, and he is kind and gentle and almost bashful. And I’m proud of that! He doesn’t need to be a chest thumping macho stud. Just be yourself little man.

Now let’s talk about flowers. I’m not a dozen roses kinda guy. But I will explain one example of how I like to give flowers. My wife was in grad school a few years ago. She had some math problems to do about cows for some kind of research. It was time for her exams so I thought some flowers might make her day. So I went to the florist which was in a strip mall. Next door was a toy store and in the window was the most adorable little stuffed cow. Now I had my wow factor. I went to the florist and told her my idea to see if she could help. No problem. So I went to a book store and found a math word problem about a cow. I went to a gift store and found a greeting card with a cow on it. I made a copy of the cow word problem and pasted it in the cow greeting card. I bought the little toy cow and took it and the card to the florist. She put the cow in a country style basket with daisies and different wildflowers. She had found a little yellow ribbon and put around its neck with a little bell. My wife melted. That basket of flowers with the little cow, which we still have today, meant more to her than any dozen roses for Valentine’s. The long story is, go the extra mile to make it personal.

I have no doubt that my son is watching my actions at home. As I get older, I think about the same thing when my father was alive and how he was with my mom. And I’m thankful that I grew up in that environment. And I’m thankful that my son is watching me. And now that I know he is, my wife is reaping the rewards! Because I’m sure that when my son becomes old enough to start dating, he will know how to treat his girl. Right now the most important thing in his life is his FIFA 14 Xbox game. I tell him to treat Mommy like he treats that video game. I told him you’re always gentle so it doesn’t get broken, you always keep it safe and secure, and you would do anything not to lose it. Yeah, he’s got it.
I wonder about the generations of young men who weren’t so lucky as to learn from their fathers. Because who else are they going to learn from? And I see some of the fathers today with their sons and the behavior or lack thereof. And I say a quiet “thanks, Dad.”

August 21, 2014 0

7 Simple Steps to Naturally Cure Yeast Infections

Things you will need:

Apple Cider Vinegar – (ACV) is one of nature’s strongest antibiotics. It can kill just about every bacteria, virus and protozoa it comes into contact with. And candida albicans are definitely on its list! Not only does ACV help to get rid of yeast fungus, it also helps to recolonise the intestines and vagina with friendly bacteria (lactobacillus). Once this occurs, the healthy bacteria will act as a powerful guard, so to speak, and stop the bad bacteria (candida) from returning.
Neem Oil – soothes itchiness, redness and irritation.
Neem Capsules – taking neem internally has the ability to make the immune system stronger and helps a person rid its body of illnesses that may weaken the body.
Chia Seeds – Full of antioxidants , Omega 3’s and fiber. All necessary for a stronger immune system.
Spirulina – one of the most nutritious, concentrated whole foods known to humankind. provides:
• 60% protein and an excellent source of Vitamins A, K1, K2, B12 and Iron, Manganese, and Chromium*
• Rich source of health-giving phytonutrients such as carotenoids, GLA, SOD, and phycocyanin*

There’s nothing to spoil your sexy night that you have been planning on than the onset of a yeast infection (except maybe a gift from Aunt Flo). We’ve been there, and through some experimenting and research, we’ve found that the best way to alleviate the symptoms of a yeast infection and get everything back on track is going au naturale.

What is a yeast infection?

A yeast infection is irritation of the vagina and the area around the vulva caused by the overgrowth of the fungus, Candida albicans.

What are the signs of a yeast infection?

The most common signs of a yeast infection are extreme itchiness in and around the vagina. Other symptoms may also include: Burning, redness and swelling of the vagina and vulva, pain when urinating, pain during sex, soreness, a thick white discharge from the vagina that looks like cottage cheese but does not have a bad odor.

How to treat a yeast infection naturally?

1. Fill a glass of about 6 to 8 ounces of water.

2. Add 1 teaspoon of chia seeds to the water and let the Chia seeds soak while you’re taking a sitz bath.

3. Pour about 2 cups of apple cider vinegar in your bath water.

4. Soak for about twenty minutes.

5. Pat your body dry, be extra careful to pat the vagina dry or use a blow dryer on the lowest setting.

6. Soak a cotton ball with Neem oil and gently apply to the effected areas: vagina, around the lips and anus.

7. Now that you are out of the bathroom, go back to your cup of water with the chia seed. Add a teaspoon of spirulina to the water with the chia seeds in it. Stir and take two Neem capsules. We like to add low sugar (under 7g of sugars) cranberry juice to our drink and enjoy.

If you want to really super charge the healing process, you can add a shot of wheatgrass to the drink.

You should now start to feel relief from the symptoms Repeat until the visible overgrowth of yeast is eliminated.

In fewer days than taking prescribed or over the counter medicine, you will not only feel better, but you would have given your immune system an incredible boost.

During this time, it is important to eat properly. Avoid processed and sugary foods and beverages. When fighting off yeast infections, your body needs proteins and it needs to be able to eliminate waste as it kills off the bad bacteria.

Try this protein rich dish. The fiber rich quinoa will help move the unhealthy bacteria and the overgrowth of yeast from your system.

Quick Quinoa dish

Cook quinoa as instructed on package (substitute vegetable or chicken stock for the water when cooking).

After quinoa is cooked, add can of wild salmon, drained

1 bunch of fresh chopped parsley

2 large cucumbers

Diced tomatoes (use as many as you like)

Handful of chopped cilantro (only because we like cilantro)

Few sprigs of fresh tarragon.

Mix all together in bowl and spray Braggs liquid amino for seasoning

enjoy.

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August 19, 2014 1

Flirting 101 – Three Simple Techniques to Find Love by Flirting

It seems that most people are really turning up their flirting skills. If you are unsure if you have what it takes in your flirting game, do not despair! We will show you three simple techniques to find the love of your life just by flirting!

For those of us who are not yet in a relationship but yearn to have someone to gaze lovingly into our eyes, we have to do some work! Now is the time to put our big girl panties on and get ready to turn the love mojo way up!

You want to get THE one, right? Right! It’s time to put that work in! You have to FLIRT. There is no way around it. Who wants a shy, demure woman out in public when she is trying to catch a man? Sure be a freak in the bed, but by all means, be a lady in the streets! Class is in session and you are about to learn the basics of flirting to find love.

Flirting can be subtle, or it can be blatant; it all depends on the situation. And to perfect your technique, there’s nothing like practice, practice, and more practice. Just have fun with it. Make this your mindset and go about your day taking advantage of every opportunity. Don’t get all hung up on the idea that you’ll look foolish, love is a fool’s game and you got to get in the game!

Eye Contact

Have you ever noticed that when you look at someone long enough, even if they’re facing away from you, they’ll turn and look at you within a minute or so? Well it’s because you’ve sent out your vibe, they feel your gaze. So pick your target, and gaze away until they turn around. And when they do you’ve got to flash your pearly whites and give a huge smile, looking them straight in the eye. What you do next is up to you. If you’re the guy, and they’re alone and smiling back, it’s time to make your move. But if you’re the gal and he’s alone and smiling back, then let him approach you. If he doesn’t then move on, he’s not in the game.

Body Language

Never underestimate the power of body language! We have all been told time and time again when we were younger, “Sit up Straight” or “Pay Attention when I am talking to you”. That also holds true when you are flirting. If you are looking to make a love connection, it is important to have posture that conveys the message “hey, I like you” and “I am interested in what you are saying”. If a possible mate approaches you, whether you are standing or sitting, make sure that your arms are not folded across your chest. That is a sure sign that says “back off – I am sooo not interested”. Instead of having your arms at your sides like a soldier, relax. If they extend their hand to shake yours, gently and gingerly (remember to be ladylike) place your hand in theirs and let it rest long enough to give the message that you like how your skin feels next to yours. This is not the time to show off a firm handshake, this is you searching for love, not a job.

Grooming

What does grooming have to do with the basics of flirting? You are flirting to find love, yes. But you want to look and smell good doing it. You are seeking to attract, not offend. Don’t take the little things for granted. Before going out to meet someone, keep in your desk or handbag the following items:

A compact mirror to do a double check on your appearance or use your car mirror and make sure that:

there isn’t any leftover food in between your teeth
your makeup looks great
your hair is in place
there are no stains on your clothes

Breath mints or small travel sized bottle of mouthwash

Deodorant – you won’t believe how many of us have rushed out of the house forgetting to put on some anti-perspirant/deodorant before leaving the house.

Now that you have mastered the three basic skills of flirting, you will need a new smartphone to store all of your contacts.

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August 14, 2014 0

These Stylish and Luxurious Sex Toys Are Made to be Seen in Public

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Luxurious and stylish sexy accessories to enjoy in and out of the bedroom.

Gone are the days of hiding your sex toys. Innovative and forward-thinking companies have designed sex toys and accessories that are made to be viewed and enjoyed out in public.

Now when you get ready for your evening out, you don’t have to hide all of your sexy accoutrements.

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Temporary Tattoos

We know that temporary tattoos aren’t necessarily a sex toy, but they certainly are sexy!

Desir Metallic – Gold Collar

When Bijoux Indiscrets came onto the scene years ago, we knew they were going to be a hit. This provocative and sophisticated brand of erotic products from Spain has many luxe looking and affordable pieces for women.

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BELLA Couture Lingerie Ladies Harness

Bella is a distinctly dangerous blend of sensuality, sophistication, and drama—and the most intoxicating lingerie harness we have seen yet! From the midnight rendezvous to the morning motorcycle ride, Bella’s ready. With BELLA, everything smolders: delicate stretchable lace, a cascading bow, and the perfect peek of rear cleavage. Bella cuts a stunning silhouette—and casts a spell impossible to shake. Bella’s breathable, barely-there fabric is luxuriously soft and ideal for all-day wear.

50 Shades of Grey Christian Grey Necktie

No rendezvous is complete without a little bit of role play. Let the fantasy become a reality with Christian Grey’s Tie. Made from luxurious silver and grey quilting, it’s a soft and versatile accessory that can be enjoyed both in and out of the bedroom.

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