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A Few of Our Favorite Things

People have asked us what are some of our all time favorites.  Now that isn’t really fair, because we believe that all of the products we offer are great and we would definitely try each one of them as soon as we could.  But, we must admit we do have our favorites and decided to share them with you.

Liberator Fascinator Throe (“Big Red” as we affectionately call it)

This lil cover really sucks!  In a good way.  It disguises itself as a boudoir throw blanket.  But it is so much more.  It’s soft.  It’s sensual fabric makes you want to lay on it.  It’s THIRSTY!  It absorbs your love juices the way you wish your sheets would.  Just lay your throe on top of your bed before playtime and it really absorbs the juices that your or your matter have squirted, or skeeted. We love it because when you want to recuperate in between sex rounds, you can just move the Fascinator Throe and no one has to lay in the wet spot.  When your up for round 2 (or more – lucky you!) Your Liberator Fascinator Throe is ready and eager to drink you up.

Kyng condoms.
We were a little skeptical at Lifestyles coming out with its own line of condoms made specifically for larger men.  The packaging looked like it was going to be a regular size condom, with a regular size fit.  But when he put it on and said that it was more comfortable and had less residue than the Trojan brand Magnum condom (“I don’t know what type of lube they put on the Magnums, but you gotta use gasoline to get It off”)  we used to use, I knew this was going to be the King in our condom stash.

Vajazzle Body jewelry
Of our many sensual addictions, we have to admit, getting a Brazilian wax is definitely one of them, followed by us adorning our lady bits with rows and rows of a temporary tattoo made up of sparkling studs. There is something sensually exciting about being able to view the entire vagina in all of its plump moistness during foreplay.  Having your vajayjay accented by Vajazzling it with Swarovski crystals is very High on our list.

Swiss Navy Lube
Nothing says loving like a healthy dose of anal sex.  And when we indulge, we reach for two products:

1. Adventure Fresh Orange Anal Relaxing Spray.

It must be the delicious sultry scent of Oranges and Clove that really relaxes us or maybe, it works that well.  Anywho, we love it

2.  The Bottle of Swiss Navy Lube.  Hell, if the boys out to sea were to use this… Ok, must stay focused.  But Swiss Navy lube is the TRUTH!!!!

It lubes up that ass and you don’t have to constantly reapply – that just destroys the fun anyway!

When it comes to Restraints, we have a “tie”
LELO Etherea Silk Cuffs (right)

Incoqnito Neck Tie (below)

These are just a few of our favorite things.  We will surely update our list as we add more awesome “sexcessories” to the website.

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Improving the Taste of Sex – Leaving a Bad Taste in Someone’s Mouth Is NOT the Way to Get Ahead

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You are what you eat… How your diet affects your secretions.

Semen is affected by what you eat, as are all secretions from the body. It is a fact that your secretions’ taste can be improved with a few simple diet changes. Diet has a major influence on the taste of your most sensual bodily fluids. Just as sweat can smell strongly after eating a heavily spiced meal, your secretions will also reflect the spices in its taste.

The make up of semen

Semen is made up of 90% seminal fluids including fructose, protein, and various trace minerals and nutrients. The pH of semen is 7 and scientifically neutral, yet it tastes acidic.

Make it Sweeter to Swallow

With semen as well as vaginal secretions, the goal is to have a sweeter taste. Everyone has a taste that is unique to them, and sometimes the taste is bitter or salty, a major complaint. you want to improve its taste.

Tips to improve your secretions:

1. Eliminate all self induced pollutants: alcohol, caffeine, recreational drugs, and nicotine. Not only do they prematurely age you, they also have a direct effect on how you taste.

2. Flush often. Drink LOTS of water to flush out the toxins in your body. 1 – 2 Liters is preferred.

3. Get Fresh. Eat plenty of fresh fruit each day to help sweeten your secretions. Good choices are: pineapples, papayas, cranberries, melons, mango, apples, kiwi, strawberries, grapes, and bananas. These are a few suggestions, but adding them to your diet now, will speed the process of neutralizing and improving your taste.

4. Go Raw. Eat plenty of fresh vegetables, preferably in their natural, raw state. While it is believed that vegetarians have better tasting secretions, there are some vegetables to avoid: Any vegetable from the cabbage family, including cauliflower and broccoli.

5. Avoid Red Meat. Eating red meat is one of the main offenders when it comes to making secretions taste bitter and/or salty. Dairy products such as milk and cheese are another culprit. Although fish has been reported to affect your taste, it is such a vital addition to one’s diet that you should opt for omega rich fish.

6. Reduce the amount of heavy spices such as garlic and onions. These delicious aromatics are high in sulfur which make them big offenders.

7. Some manufacturers claim to have products on the market designed to improve the taste of your sensual secretions. These are simply fruit and vegetable extracts that you must take on a regular basis. If you eat the fresh fruit and vegetables as we recommend, over time, you will achieve similar results.

8. Go Green. Parsley, wheatgrass, celery and mint are particularly recommended for sweeter secretion taste due to their high chlorophyll content.

9. Cinnamon, cardamom, peppermint, and lemon are also recommended for making secretions taste better.

10. Undue Process. The speed and availability of processed or junk foods are loaded with chemicals and preservatives that pollute your body and adversely affect the taste of your secretions. Reduce the amount of processed foods you consume.

The ultimate goal is to improve the taste of your sensual secretions so your partner will enjoy your taste. This takes time and patience. Try to consume more foods that are from the Earth. Eat natural foods as often as possible. If you feel that you must swallow a pill to boost the taste, consider a zinc and selenium supplement. Men and women can greatly benefit from following these simple and easy tips.

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Coconut Oil for Your Coochie?

Did you know that Coconut oil has been described as “the healthiest oil on earth.”  I am all for all things natural or healthy, and naturally healthy and usually only apply coconut oil to my body and hair.  So I did a little Googling and discovered that coconut oil is good for ALL of your skin.  So I began a little experiment, and to my pleasure found that applying coconut oil to your pubic area is a nice addition to your sexual health.

Take a trip to your favorite organic/health food store and purchase Extra Virgin COCONUT Oil.  After your shower, apply liberally over your thirsty vagina.  You will be amazed at how your skin absorbs the oil.

Coconut oil contains lauric acid, capric acid and caprylic acid, and it has properties such as antimicrobial, antioxidant, antifungal, antibacterial, soothing, etc.  Coconut oil is an excellent massage oil for the skin, as well as an effective moisturizer on all types of skins including dry skin. There are no adverse side effects on the skin with the application of coconut oil. Coconut oil therefore is a safe solution for preventing dryness and flaking of skin. It also delays wrinkles, and sagging of skin which normally becomes prominent with age. Coconut oil also helps in preventing premature aging and degenerative diseases due to its antioxidant properties. Coconut oil also helps in treating various skin problems including psoriasis, dermatitis, eczema and other skin infections. So why not use it on your pubic area?  It gives it a nice tropical scent.

  • Applied topically helps to form a chemical barrier on the skin to ward of infection.
  • Softens skin and helps relieve dryness and flaking.
  • Promotes healthy looking hair and complexion.
  • Reduces inflammation.
  • Supports tissue healing and repair.
  • Functions as a protective antioxidant.
  • Supports the natural chemical balance of the skin.
  • Prevents wrinkles, sagging skin, and age spots.
  • Provides protection from damaging effects of ultraviolet radiation from the sun.
  • Kills viruses that cause herpes, measles, hepatitis C, SARS, AIDS, and other illnesses.
  • Kills bacteria that cause ulcers, throat infections, urinary tract infections, gum disease and cavities, pneumonia, and gonorrhea, and other diseases.
  • Kills fungi and yeasts that cause candidiasis, thrush, and other infections.

Disclaimer: This article is for information purposes only and should not be used for the diagnosis or treatment of medical conditions. *Do not use coconut oil if you are allergic to nuts.

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Body Art: Beautiful Tattoos…Temporary Designs

When we saw the Skyn Couture Temporary Tattoos, we knew we had to offer them.  According to their bio, SKYN Couture is a high quality temporary tattoo collection unlike anything you’ve ever seen before. These are not your traditional temporary tattoos, they are high fashion tattoo designs that look and feel extremely realistic…just like a real tattoo.
Now you can get a beautiful tattoo without the commitment, and without any regret. 

“Fashion isn’t permanent, why should your tattoos be” is the motto of this absolutely amazing line of temporary tattoos called Skyn Couture and it is going to blow your mind! They are so realistic looking, that you just might fool tattoo aficionados!

Skyn Coutoure Temporary Tattoo

  • Super Sexy
  • Easy to Apply and remove
  • Look completely realistic
  • Last up to 5 days
  • Waterproof

Designed to compete with high end luxury temporary tattoos without the luxury price tag, each Skyn Couture design is made with the highest quality inks and adhesives, allowing you to express your naughty side, when you feel like being naughty!

Skyn Coutoure and VajazzlingWear them for:

  • Pool Parties
  • Halloween
  • Birthdays and Anniversaries
  • Girls Night Out
  • Hiding Scars or Stretch Marks

Because we all have a little naughty in us!

Being naughty never looked so sexy!  You can now get a variety of styles from http://www.embracedesires.com/skyncouturetemporarytattoos-girlsgonewild.aspx

Coming Soon:

Skyn Couture Temporary TattoosSkyn Couture Coy Fish Temporary Tattoos

Ingredients: Acrylic copolymer, propylene glycol, surfactant, black iron oxide, FD&C red no. 7 calcium lake, FD&C yellow no. 5 aluminum lake, FD&C yellow #6 aluminum lake, FD&C blue no. 1 aluminum lake, may contain titanium dioxide

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Spasms and Orgasms

I had this wonderful realization about head. It is so much more enjoyable when you actually give a damn about the person (go figure)! I get quite turned on knowing that he is enjoying himself and I am the cause. He loves it especially when I venture down to his nether regions without him hinting, or asking, or begging or…you get the picture,
Back then, head was never a big deal to me, I was neither for or against it. I now find myself enjoying it more and more the longer he and I are together. In the bedroom– or any room we vacate at the moment– I immediately take charge, I usually switch up my methods of attack each time we do ”the do”, but slobbin’ the knob is one of the best ways to go! 
Already confident in my technique (’cause practice makes perfect) I straddle him, and make sweet little trails of kisses, nips and nibbles downward til I reach my destination. I take him in my mouth all sexy like, looking at him, my eyes commanding his to watch me. I don’t do the spit thing like they do in porn, it grosses me out, however I do believe that dry or even a semi dry erection is horrible, so I let it sit in my mouth while it builds up saliva and I am literally SALIVATING over him. Once he’s nice and moist, I continue to go to work.
I make real good sloppy slurping noises, and moan like he is the most delicious thing I have ever tasted, but proceed with caution though, too much enthusiasm causes excitement and he will buck and thrust in your mouth (trust me) but remember, you’re in control, and you can nip that in the bud by placing a firm– not crushing– grip with your hand to remind him who’s boss.
And since we have now added the almighty hand into the equation, it would only be fair to call on a little teamwork. I keep my hand in a steady rhythm, not too fast, just enough to keep him vocal. Now that we’re in the rhythmic simualtion stage, my mouth becomes the most powerfully used in combination with my hand, with my attention mainly focused on the tip and the frenulum, the most sensitive part of the penis (on a side note ladies and maybe a few gentlemen: the frenulum is the thin. nerve-rich membrane that attaches- or – attached if he’s been circumsized – the foreskin to the head and shaft of the penis.)
I maintain my firm grip on the base and keep my lips over the tip, as I start working my head up and down over aforementioned frenulum, little known fact, but that action will naturally create suction. No need for deep throating here, cause that trick alone already has him jerking and twisting and stifling moans!
The moment of truth, he let’s me know he’s almost there and my pace doesn’t let up. Now many people don’t like it but as I mentioned before, I’ve come to enjoy pleasing him, so he let’s me have it, and I take it all in, and what really puts the nail on the coffin is to keep sucking for a few seconds after he’s finished, and looky, looky 8..9…10 DING it’s a knockout!
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How Brushing My Teeth Improved My Blow Job Skills

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People ask all the time, “How do you give good head?” and “How do you keep from gagging?”  I tell them that I learned from unusual sources.  I’m no expert on oral sex, but I  learned mostly by brushing my teeth.

I had a hairy partner who used to give so much instruction on how he wanted it done that I felt like I

was in school.  After what I thought was a less than mediocre fellatio performance, I would always go into the bathroom to brush my teeth to get his little hairs and him out of my mouth.  I brushed and brushed and brushed.   Not so much for oral hygiene, although I did want to get him out of my mouth, but partly because I could practice my gag reflex while brushing my tongue.  It was either practice in private, or practice on too many guys who would not appreciate my efforts.  So armed with my toothbrush and my ego, I  would take my toothbrush and brush the back of my tongue so far back, I would almost throw up.  I did it so much that eventually, I was able to hit the little bally thing in the back of my throat without gagging.

Next, I would wet my mouth to get my lips and entire mouth dripping wet.  Yes it is sexy they way the water drips down.  Then I would stretch my lips and open my mouth as wide as I could while trying to look sexy.  Don’t waste your time, there’s nothing sexy about that look.

Then came the part my dentist could appreciate.  I brushed my teeth.  You know some people would keep the foam from building in their mouth because it looks nasty?  Well that wasn’t me.  The foamier, the better.  That’s when I practiced my “slurps”  I would spit the frothy spit over the sink, then slurp it back up.  Yep, it was that simple.

After all of that diligent oral hygiene, I was ready for the next time.  When the next time came, I was nervous I had dry mouth.  So I popped a curiously strong mint into my mouth and went to town.  I forgot to spit the mint out.   WHOA!  As soon as my mouth went down on his head, I knew that I had him! He moaned in what could only be ecstasy and I watched his toes curl, his hips thrust strongly and his moaning grunts of passion urging me to keep going.  My ego had skyrocketed and I remembered the tips I got from my dear Gay friends.  Boldly I put both hands on him and they went to work stroking him like I was twisting and churning butter.  My hands had a mind of their own.  It was as if they were working independently , yet together with my mouth.  Again my dear ego jumps in and want to show off.  I suck in my cheeks to get a mouthful of spit, cup my hands and fill them with all the wetness my mouth can produce and spit, not that dainty dribble either, I mean really spit all that moisture on him so I can stroke his head and shaft smoothly.  That’s when I would confidently, with the experience of a pro, delight and entertain him by lifting his penis ever so gently and inhaled his balls in my mouth.  Captivating him with my newly

Gently place the balls in your mouth and hum

found blowjob skills. Caressing his nuts in my mouth as if they were delicate quails’ eggs all while moaning, slurping & humming to my own beat.

Did I look up at him like they did in the porno’s?  Well, before I was armed with this powerful oral awareness — No, I mean what would I look at him for?  But now?  Hell yeah.  I glance up, not to really look to see “if” I’m doing a good job or “if” he is enjoying my performance.  I glance up to look at him and let my eyes tell him, “yeah, I know I’m amazing”.

I guess you’re wondering what happens when he finishes?  Do I swallow?  The answer depends on my mood.  Sometimes, I like to see my handiwork and let him shoot it wherever (I, too believe it’s great for the skin)  and rub it in or play with it.  Other times, I swallow.  The trick to that is, let him see it in your mouth first.  Your mouth will naturally water up the longer you hold it in your mouth, which will make it easier to swallow.  After you got it all down, open wide and show, “All gone.”

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