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World AIDS Day 2014

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Focus, Partner, Achieve: An AIDS-Free Generation

On December 1, people throughout the world observe World AIDS Day, an opportunity for the global community to honor those living with HIV; the families, friends, caregivers, and communities who support them; and those who have lost their lives to AIDS.

The theme for 2014 – “Focus, Partner, Achieve: An AIDS-Free Generation” – reflects the drive to focus on interventions that work and partner with a broad range of stakeholders to achieve control of the epidemic and move closer to an AIDS-free generation.

Currently, an estimated 34 million people around the globe are living with AIDS, and 35 million have died from the virus.

“World AIDS Day is a day dedicated to raising awareness of the AIDS pandemic caused by the HIV virus through education on its prevention and control.” qweerty.com

It was the the brain child of two public information officers for the Global Programme at the World Health Organization in Geneva Switzerlan, James W. Bunn and Thomas Netter. They presented heir idea to the Director of the Global Programme of AIDS (UNAIDS in August 1987 who approved it and agreed with Mr. Bunn’s recommendation that the first observance should be December 1. 1988. The date was chosen to maximize coverage of World AIDS Day by western media as it was long enough after the US elections and far enough in advance of the Christmas holidays.

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On November 25, 2014, the United States Centers for Disease Control released its latest report on the HIV Continuum of Care in a new edition of Vital Signs, which includes a Morbidity and Mortality Weekly Report (MMWR), Vital Signs: HIV Diagnosis, Care, and Treatment Among Persons Living with HIV — United States, 2011, and an accompanying fact sheet, HIV Care Saves Lives, Viral Suppression is Key. Visit the Vital Signs website to learn more. According to the Vital Signs report, of the 1.2 million Americans living with HIV in 2011, less than a third had their virus under control through effective care and treatment.
To find out more about the CDC and it’s efforts,  in the fight against AIDS, click here

Initially the theme of World AIDS Day was on children and young people to help remove some of the stigma surrounding AIDS and boost recognition of it as a family disease. It has been very effective in doing just that. In 1997 UNAIDS began a campaign to focus on year round communications, prevention and education.  The campaigns have been so effective that Popes John II and Benedict XVI have each released greeting message for patients and doctors on World AIDS Day.

Since 2007, The United States White House has been observing the day with a 28 foot red ribbon, the symbol AIDS, displayed on  the buidings’ North Portico.  Read and share the U.S Presidential Proclamation recognizing World AIDS Day 2014.

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The red ribbon, the familiar symbol of AIDS, was created by a New York based group of artist and AIDS Activists called Visual AIDS Artists Caucus. Their goal was to create a symbol that would demonstrate compassion for people both those who were living with AIDS and their caregivers. Red was chosen because of its “connection to blood and the idea of passion”  – anger and love.

Each year the World AIDS Campaign chooses  World AIDS Day theme.  In 2012 a four year theme was adopted for Worlds Aids Day; Getting To Zero; Zero new HIV infections, Zero deaths from AIDS-related illness, Zero discrimination. The themes are used year long to further awareness and become better educated about this disease.  It been very effective as different organizations, governments and individuals are rethinking their idea and treatment of AIDS,  AIDS patients and their families.

An example of the Getting to Zero theme being applied is seen in “90-90-90 Initiative” launched by UNAIDS in September of this year to end the AIDS epidemic. The “90-90-90” initiative sets global goals for countries to increase HIV testing so that 90% of all people in that country living with HIV know their status, 90% of those who are HIV positive are offered treatment and 90% of those on antiretoviral medicine are virally suppressed by 2020.

We are so grateful for their efforts and hope that soon, because of their efforts AIDS will be cured.
To find out how you can get more information, including where to get tested and treatment, visit aids.gov

7 Simple Steps to Naturally Cure Yeast Infections

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Things you will need:

  • Apple Cider Vinegar – (ACV) is one of nature’s strongest antibiotics. It can kill just about every bacteria, virus and protozoa it comes into contact with. And candida albicans are definitely on its list! Not only does ACV help to get rid of yeast fungus, it also helps to recolonise the intestines and vagina with friendly bacteria (lactobacillus). Once this occurs, the healthy bacteria will act as a powerful guard, so to speak, and stop the bad bacteria (candida) from returning.
  • Neem Oil – soothes itchiness, redness and irritation.
  • Neem Capsules – taking neem internally has the ability to make the immune system stronger and helps a person rid its body of illnesses that may weaken the body.
  • Chia Seeds – Full of antioxidants , Omega 3’s and fiber. All necessary for a stronger immune system.
  • Spirulina – one of the most nutritious, concentrated whole foods known to humankind. provides:
    • 60% protein and an excellent source of Vitamins A, K1, K2, B12 and Iron, Manganese, and Chromium*
    • Rich source of health-giving phytonutrients such as carotenoids, GLA, SOD, and phycocyanin*

There’s nothing to spoil your sexy night that you have been planning on than the onset of a yeast infection (except maybe a gift from Aunt Flo). We’ve been there, and through some experimenting and research, we’ve found that the best way to alleviate the symptoms of a yeast infection and get everything back on track is going au naturale.

What is a yeast infection?

A yeast infection is irritation of the vagina and the area around the vulva caused by the overgrowth of the fungus, Candida albicans.

What are the signs of a yeast infection?

The most common signs of a yeast infection are extreme itchiness in and around the vagina. Other symptoms may also include: Burning, redness and swelling of the vagina and vulva, pain when urinating, pain during sex, soreness, a thick white discharge from the vagina that looks like cottage cheese but does not have a bad odor.

How to treat a yeast infection naturally?

1. Fill a glass of about 6 to 8 ounces of water.

2. Add 1 teaspoon of chia seeds to the water and let the Chia seeds soak while you’re taking a sitz bath.

3. Pour about 2 cups of apple cider vinegar in your bath water.

4. Soak for about twenty minutes.

5. Pat your body dry, be extra careful to pat the vagina dry or use a blow dryer on the lowest setting.

6. Soak a cotton ball with Neem oil and gently apply to the effected areas: vagina, around the lips and anus.

7. Now that you are out of the bathroom, go back to your cup of water with the chia seed. Add a teaspoon of spirulina to the water with the chia seeds in it. Stir and take two Neem capsules. We like to add low sugar (under 7g of sugars) cranberry juice to our drink and enjoy.

If you want to really super charge the healing process, you can add a shot of wheatgrass to the drink.

You should now start to feel relief from the symptoms Repeat until the visible overgrowth of yeast is eliminated.

In fewer days than taking prescribed or over the counter medicine, you will not only feel better, but you would have given your immune system an incredible boost.

During this time, it is important to eat properly. Avoid processed and sugary foods and beverages. When fighting off yeast infections, your body needs proteins and it needs to be able to eliminate waste as it kills off the bad bacteria.

Try this protein rich dish. The fiber rich quinoa will help move the unhealthy bacteria and the overgrowth of yeast from your system.

Quick Quinoa dish

Cook quinoa as instructed on package (substitute vegetable or chicken stock for the water when cooking).

After quinoa is cooked, add can of wild salmon, drained

1 bunch of fresh chopped parsley

2 large cucumbers

Diced tomatoes (use as many as you like)

Handful of chopped cilantro (only because we like cilantro)

Few sprigs of fresh tarragon.

Mix all together in bowl and spray Braggs liquid amino for seasoning

enjoy.

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Summer Sex Tips to Beat the Heat

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Together. Forget about turning up the water temperature for this one. Join your partner in the water and exchange sensual soapy strokes along the curves of each other bodies.

Skip the alcoholic beverages.

Skip Alcoholic BeveragesAs tempting to have a nice cocktail with your partner to relax.  Skip the alcohol.  Alcohol and spirits raise your blood pressure and body temperature. Instead, feed juicy sweet summer fruits to each other and if you’re feeling adventurous,  eat some off of each other.

Stay hydrated during summer sex tips embracedesires water based lubedStay hydrated.

This may seem like a no – brainer here, but staying hydrated is easy to forget about in the heat of passion.  Keep water or your favorite summer drink near the bed (or wherever you find yourself making love) to keep your internal temperatures at a safe level.

Crank up the Air Conditioner

Or put the fan on its highest setting.

Get blown away summer sex tips high tech vibratorsBecause you and your partner are going to turn things up!

Try sensation play.  Sensation Play - fill a bowl with ice cubes to cool things down

Now is the time to raid the freezer.  Grab a nice sized deep bowl and fill it with ice cubes.  Put your favorite glass dildo,  vibrator or restraints into the ice and get them nice and chilled.    In the meantime,  let an an ice cube melt from your fingers to chill your partners hottest spot.

 

 

 

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Cock Rings 101 or Why a Man Should wear A Cock Ring – Intense Orgasms, of Course!

Cock Ring 101. Intense Orgasms, Look Bigger.  Yes,  A Cock Ring Will Do That for YOU!

If you or your man ever wanted to experience more intense orgasms, he should wear a cock ring. Here are some basic rules why a man should wear a cock ring.  Some men who have never worn a cock ring before (gasp!  I know)  wonder why should they.  We are here to give you reasons why you should wear a cock ring.

Cock rings are designed to maintain erections and possibly create more intense orgasms.  They are worn around the base of the penis, or around the penis and testicles, and restrict the blood flow from leaving the penis.  Awesome, Right?  Cock rings can also be a fun and exciting addition to anyone’s sex life, whether with a parnter or flying solo.

But you want us to tell you WHY you should wear a cock ring?  What are good reasons to wear one.  Ok, read on…

feels good 150x150 Cock Rings 101 or Why a Man Should wear A Cock Ring   Intense Orgasms They feel good.  It’s almost like the penis and testicles have a firm grip around them.

It can make the penis look – dare we say –  BIGGER and maybe even LONGER

Cock rings can help the man who has trouble staying hard.
Gives you more intense orgasms. Gives you longer, firmer erections.

Now for some of the fun stuff.  Do you know that there is a method to measuring yourself or your man for the perfect fit?  Yes!  Just as women need to be sized for the perfect engagement/wedding ring, men should be properly fitted for a cock ring.

MEASURING

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To find the right ring size, take a piece of string (the same way if you needed to sneak at finding her ring size) and wrap it around the base of an ERECT penis, giving you the circumference.  For rings worn around the penis and testicles, measure and wrap around behind

the testicles and as close to the body as you can while the penis is ERECT for the circumference.  Because ring sizes are given in diameter, you will need to divide this number by Pi (3.14 – don’t worry if you were cutting class that day, we will help you figure it out).

For example:  If the penis measures 6″ ÷ 3.14 =1.91. You will need a ring that is smaller that 1.91″ but within .25″ – .5″ to ensure a comfortable fit without constricting too much.

STYLE OF COCK RING

The style of the cock ring that you select should have a firm enough grip around the penis to restict blood flow, yet comfortable enough so that it does not completely cut blood circulation of entirely.

PUTTING ON A COCK RING

Adjustable cock rings can be put on any time during an erection by simply strething or strapping the ring so that it fits snuggly around the base of the penis or behind the testicles.  Since they are flexible, they can also be removed easily at any time.

Firm non-adjustable rings:

Always start with a flaccid (non erect) penis

Holding the ring under the testicles, insert one at a time

Pull the penis through the ring and adjust for comfort.

To remove the ring, the penis must be flaccid, and simply reverse the process.

HOW LONG SHOULD I WEAR A COCK RING?

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To prevent damage or bruising to the penis, a ring should not completely restrict the blood flow for longer than 20 minutes at a time.  If discomfort is felt at any time, the ring should be removed as quickly and gently as possible.

We are pleased to offer both Adjustable and Non Adjustable style cock rings in a variety of materials.  Visit our Men’s Store to find cock rings, penis jewelry and other sensual accessories just for men at The Men’s Store

Adjustable – great for beginners.  They allow the user to experience what a penis ring can offer, while being able to remove them quickly if the sensations become too intense. These styles can be worn at the base of the penis or behind the testicles.

Non-Adjustable – Firm ring that have little or no flexibility for more advanced users who have experimented with rings before and are familiar with how intense the sensations can get.  These are usually worn behind the testicles.

10 Aphrodisiac Foods To Make Yummy Libido Boosting Dishes

Exotic, Erotic Romantic Dishes

The next time you are in the supermarket, think about what types of aphrodisiac foods to add to your cart so you could turn ordinary dinner into finger licking libido boosting sexy dishes.

Say goodbye to plain ol’ meatloaf and say hello to exotic dishes to get your blood and your partner pumping.

Maybe you can make a meal of each other…

The Dish: Badam KheerLibido Boosting Recipe
The Libido Boosting Ingredient(s): Almonds and Cardamom

This is a nutritious Indian sweet served with a meal as a sweet or as a dessert.

It has all the goodness of almonds and the milk and the flavor of saffron and the cardamom. It is also a very easy to make among the almond recipes.

Almonds provide you Vitamin E and help you look younger and to keep fit. They are also good for your skin, reduce cholesterol and boost immunity. It is believed that the aroma stimulates passion.  So much so, that it has been reported that Samson enticed Delilah with these testicular looking nuts, and word also has it that Cleopatra dined on an Almond based drink.

Cardamom is a nicely aromatic spice. In many cultures and mystic circles it is viewed as an intensely powerful aphrodisiac, used to cast love spells and also beneficial in treating impotency (mix with maca, Peru’s natural Viagra, for some ‘interesting results’). Maca is high in cineole, which can increase blood flow in certain important areas!

Ingredients:

  • Raw Almonds – 1 cup
  • sugar – 1 cup
  • saffron – few strands
  • cardamom powder – 1/2 teaspoon
  • water – 1/2 cup
  • Ghee (or clarified butter) – 1 tablespoon
  • Milk – 1 quart

Preparation
Soak almonds in water for about 1 hour.

Peel almonds and grind them to paste using the water. Do not add any extra water.

Cooking Method 
1 Heat ghee in a thick bottomed pan. Add almond paste and fry on low flame for 4-5 minutes stirring all the while.

2 Add sugar. Mix well and cook for 5 minutes.

3  Add milk and boil for 15 minutes. Add cardamom powder and saffron strands. It will enhance flavor and color too.
Serve hot or chilled. Enjoy this in the hot summer afternoons, as a cool snack, or as a dessert.

Serves

4-6

The Dish: Marinated Shrimp in Avocado HalvesLibido boosting foods

The Libido Boosting Ingredient:  Avocado
High in B6 – said to increase male hormone production.  The Mayans and Aztecs called the avocado tree, the Testicle tree because they  believed the avocados hang in pairs and resembled testicles hanging from the tree.  Avocado’s nutrition actually delivers a mash up of nutrients essential to sexual health, including beta carotene, magnesium and vitamin E, (which is sometimes called the “sex vitamin“).  It’s been reported to have been a traditional remedy for erectile dysfunction.  As if that isn’t enough for you to grab a nice big avocado the next time you are in the grocery,  it also delivers more potassium than a raw banana.  Offering 2.4 grams of protein for every 1/2 cup of fruit, an essential ingredient for a successful late night powwow.

Ingredients

1 lb small shrimp, poached and peeled
1/2 cup fresh tomato juice
3 Tbsp cilantro, chopped
2 clove garlic, minced
3 slices sweet onion, finely diced
1 small jicama, diced
1 Jalapeno pepper, seeded, finely diced (optional)
2 lime, juiced
salt and pepper to taste
2 ripe Avocados

Instructions

-Thoroughly mix together all ingredients except the avocados. Refrigerate 30 minutes.
-Just before serving, cut each avocado into halves and take out the seed.
-Spoon marinated shrimp into the avocado halves and serve

The Dish:  Pineapple Puffs

Libido Boosting Ingredient:  Pineapples libido boosting foods

Pineapples not only improves the taste of semen (Yum!), but it is a good source of manganese and vitamin C, and has been historically used to cure impotence.  But the unique gift the majestic, pineapple boasts of is its protein digestive enzyme Bromelaine which thins the blood and improves circulation to improve sexual performance.

Prep Time: 10 Mins
Cook Time: 20 Mins
Ready In: 30 Mins

Ingredients

  • 1/2 cup butter, softened
  • 1 cup white sugar
  • 1 egg
  • 1 (8 ounce) can crushed pineapple
  • 2 cups all-purpose flour
  • 1/2 teaspoon salt
  • 1/2 teaspoon baking soda
  • 1 teaspoon baking powder
  • 1/2 teaspoon ground cinnamon

Directions

1  Preheat oven to 350 degrees F (175 degrees C). Grease muffin cups or line with paper muffin liners.

2. In a large bowl, cream together the butter and sugar until light and fluffy. Add the egg; beat well. Stir in the crushed pineapple and its juice. In a large mixing bowl, mix together the flour, salt, baking soda, baking powder and cinnamon. Add this mixture to the pineapple mixture; stir well. Scoop batter into prepared muffin cups.

3  Bake 350 degrees F (175 degrees C) for 20 minutes, or until a toothpick inserted into the center of a muffin comes out clean. Cool for 10 minutes in the pans before removing to a wire rack to cool completely.

The Dish: Pressure Cooker Chili

             The Libido Boosting Ingredient(s): Chili Libido boosting foods

Chili peppers are aphrodisiacs of choice when you are looking to really spice things up because of the its ability to release endorphins from the chemical Capsaicin.  Capsaisin stimulates the nerve endings and increases your pulse, makes you sweat and increases sensitivity.  Because it mimics what you experience during a stimulating lovemaking session. Besides the spicy taste, chili peppers release endorphins and gives the body a natural high – think of how elated you feel after you’ve climaxed. (on a separate note, you can snack on pineapples sprinkled with chili as a snack for a supercharged boost).

Prep Time: 10 Mins

Cook Time: 20 Mins

Ready In: 35 Mins

Ingredients

  • 1 pound ground beef
  • 2 teaspoons olive oil
  • 1 sweet onion, chopped
  • 1 small green bell pepper, finely chopped
  • 1 jalapeno pepper, seeded and finely chopped
  • 2 cloves garlic, minced
  • 2 (14.5 ounce) cans dark red kidney beans, drained and rinsed
  • 2 (14.5 ounce) cans diced tomatoes, undrained
  • 3 tablespoons tomato paste
  • 1 tablespoon dark brown sugar
  • 2 teaspoons unsweetened cocoa powder
  • 1/4 teaspoon crushed red pepper flakes, or to taste
  • 2 tablespoons chili powder
  • 2 teaspoons ground cumin
  • 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt, or to taste
  • 2 cups water

Directions

1.  Place the ground beef in the pressure cooker over medium high heat; cook until brown and crumbly, 8 to 10 minutes. Remove the ground beef, and drain off the excess fat.

2.  Return the open pressure cooker to the burner over medium heat, pour in the olive oil, and stir in the onion, green pepper, and jalapeno pepper. Cook and stir for 3 to 4 minutes, until the onion is translucent. Add the garlic, and cook and stir for about 30 more seconds. Return the meat to the pressure cooker; mix in the kidney beans, diced tomatoes, tomato paste, brown sugar, cocoa powder, red pepper flakes, chili powder, cumin, salt, and water.

3.  Lock the lid, bring the cooker up to pressure, reduce heat to maintain pressure, and cook for 8 minutes. Remove cooker from the heat, and let the pressure reduce on its own, 5 to 10 minutes.

4. When the pressure is fully released, remove the lid, stir the chili, and serve

The Dish: Soft Gingersnaps

              The Libido Boosting Ingredient(s): Ginger and Nutmeg GINGER libido boosting food

Ginger improves circulation and is believed by some to be an aphrodisiac food because of its intoxicating scent.

Nutmeg has been known for its intoxicating, and hallucinogenic properties in Europe.  Studies were conducted on male rodents using the aphrodisiac spice nutmeg and recorded an increase of the males attempting to mount the female rodents.  Gives new meaning to the term, “ooh you dirty rat”.

Prep Time: 30 Mins

Cook Time: 10 Mins

Ready In: 40 Mins

Ingredients

  • 1 1/2 cups butter (no substitutes), softened
  • 2 cups sugar
  • 2 eggs
  • 1/2 cup molasses
  • 4 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
  • 3 teaspoons baking soda
  • 2 teaspoons ground cinnamon
  • 1 teaspoon ground ginger
  • 1 teaspoon ground cloves
  • 1/2 teaspoon salt
  • 1/2 teaspoon ground nutmeg
  • Additional sugar

Directions

1.  In a mixing bowl, cream butter and sugar. Add eggs, one at a time, beating well after each addition. Beat in molasses. Combine the flour, baking soda, cinnamon, ginger, cloves, salt and nutmeg; gradually add to creamed mixture. Refrigerate for 1 hour or until dough is easy to handle.

2. Roll into 1-in. balls; roll in sugar. Place 2 in. apart on ungreased baking sheets. Bake at 350 degrees F for 8-12 minutes or until puffy and lightly browned. Cool for 1 minute before removing to wire racks.

The Dish: Spiced Figs

The Libido Boosting Ingredient(s): Figs  fig-libido boosting foodThis  sweet, purple fruit is already a sexy ass fruit in appearance and texture.  Plump, succulent looking, and velvety skin. When sliced open, its luscious flesh drips with a floral honey scent, revealing a juicy resemblance to the female sex organ.  It has been rumored that the fig  has been regarded highly as a  sexual stimulant for ages.

Note: This dish is not for a quick fix-me-up, if you want ’em fresh, you’ll have to wait for summer or early Fall.

  • 2 cups white wine vinegar
  • 1 inch (2.5 cm) piece fresh ginger
  • 3 tablespoons allspice
  • 4 blades of mace or 4 teaspoons ground mace
  • 2 cups sugar
  • Cloves (one per fig)
  • 2 1/2 pounds (1 kg) fresh figs
  • Juice of one lemon
Bring vinegar, ginger, allspice, mace and sugar to a boil, and simmer for 5 minutes. Push one clove into each fig and add figs to syrup. Return to the boil, then remove from heat. Allow to stand overnight.
Using a slotted spoon, transfer figs to sterilized jars. Reserve syrup.
Return syrup to the boil, add lemon juice, mix well and strain over figs to completely cover. Seal while hot.
You may use Balsamic vinegar if you don’t have lemons.

The Dish: Strawberry Bruschetta

                                                  The Libido Boosting Ingredient(s): Strawberries    strawberries libido boosting food     


There’s a good reason strawberries are a popular aphrodisiac food.  High in Vitamin C –  lush, fragrant strawberries’ have long had a place in romance literature.  it is a symbol of sensuality, representing a female nipple, the French used to give newlywed couples strawberry soup to increase their sexual desire.  Who knows more about love than the French?

Prep Time: 10 Mins
Cook Time: 5 mins
Ready In: 15 Mins

 Ingredients

  • 24 slices French baguette
  • 1 tablespoon butter, softened
  • 2 cups chopped fresh strawberries
  • 1/4 cup white sugar, or as needed

Directions

1. Preheat your oven’s broiler. Spread a thin layer of butter on each slice of bread. Arrange bread slices in a single layer on a large baking sheet.

2. Place bread under the broiler for 1 to 2 minutes, just until lightly toasted. Spoon some chopped strawberries onto each piece of toast, then sprinkle sugar over the strawberries.

3. Place under the broiler again until sugar is caramelized, 3 to 5 minutes. Serve immediately.

The Dish: Stuffed Bell Peppers

                                      The Libido Boosting Ingredient(s): Garlic and Pine Nuts aphrodisiac foods peppers libido foods

This dish has a double whammy of ingredients, the Pine Nuts are rich in Zinc, and the garlic contains high levels of Allicin, a compound that can improve blood flow to the sexual organs. But note – just don’t munch on big cloves of raw garlic! Allicin is only produced once garlic has been chopped as it is produced through an enzyme reaction.  According to Session Magazine, garlic is the third most powerful aphrodisiac in the world.

Use different colored peppers with this stuffing flavored with onion, garlic, anchovies, raisins, pine nuts, and olives. It is a tantalizing mixture of salty, sweet, savory, and crunchy ingredients. It is served lukewarm, at room temperature.

Prep Time: 15 minutes

Cook Time: 50 minutes

Total Time: 65 minutes

Ingredients:

•4 bell peppers of different colors

•4 Tablespoons, plus 2 Tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil (divided use)

•1 medium white onion, finely diced

•2 garlic cloves, finely chopped

•1 Tablespoon Italian parsley, finely chopped

•4 anchovies, finely chopped

•1 Tablespoon raisins

•1 Tablespoon pine nuts

•2 ounces olives, pitted, drained, and finely ground

•6 Tablespoons bread crumbs

•Salt and pepper

Preparation:Preheat oven to 350 degrees F (175 C).

Wash the bell peppers, cut them in half, and remove the seeds.

In a skillet, pour 4 tablespoons of the extra-virgin olive oil and turn heat to medium.

Saute the onion and garlic, until onion is soft and translucent. Remove the skillet from the heat. Stir in the parsley, anchovies, raisins, pine nuts, ground olives, bread crumbs, salt, and pepper. Drizzle with remaining 2 tablespoons of extra-virgin olive oil. Mix all the ingredients thoroughly.

Fill the bell peppers with the mixture. Place the filled bell peppers side by side in an oiled oven pan. Bake for about 40 minutes, or until the surface is golden.

Remove pan from the oven and let the stuffed peppers cool at room temperature. Serve lukewarm.

The Dish: Vanilla Slice    

The Libido Boosting Ingredient(s): Vanilla Vanilla-Bean-Bundle-beanilla-aphrodisiac foods

There is nothing plain about vanilla as a flavoring.  The aroma is reported to soothe and stimulate the female libido.  The Aztecs and Mayans knew about the euphoric effects on the brain.  It was believed that vanilla made you hot, and ready for sex.

Prep Time: 10 Mins

Cook Time: 20 Mins

Ready In: 30 Mins

 Ingredients

  • 1 (17.25 ounce) package frozen puff pastry, thawed
  • 1 cup white sugar
  • 1/2 cup custard powder
  • 3/4 cup cornstarch
  • 5 1/4 cups milk
  • 1/4 cup butter
  • 2 egg yolks
  • 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
  • 1 cup confectioners’ sugar
  • 1 tablespoon milk
  • 1 dash vanilla extract

Directions

1.  Preheat the oven to 400 degrees F (200 degrees C). Unfold puff pastry sheets, and place flat onto baking sheets. Bake for 10 to 15 minutes, or until lightly browned and puffed. Set aside.

2.  Combine the sugar, custard powder and cornstarch in a large saucepan. Mix in just enough milk to form a paste, then gradually mix in the rest. This will prevent lumps from forming. Add the butter. Cook over medium heat, stirring frequently until thick. You may need to use a whisk to ensure a smooth consistency. When the mixture comes to a simmer, cook stirring constantly for 2 minutes. Remove from the heat, and stir in the egg yolks and vanilla.

3.  Line a 9 inch baking dish with aluminum foil. Place one of the baked pastry sheets in the bottom of the dish. Spread the custard filling in an even layer over the pastry, and top with the other sheet.

4. Mix the confectioners’ sugar with 1 tablespoon of milk, and a dash of vanilla to make an icing. Spread over the top of the pastry. Refrigerate until the custard layer is firm. Remove from the pan and slice.

 The Dish: Watermelon and Feta Salad with Arugula and Spinach

                           The Libido Boosting Ingredient(s): Arugula and Watermelon watermelon arugula libido boosting aphrodisiac boosting food

Arugula, called the rocket seed has been used as far back as the first century A.D to improve male performance. This love drug contains trace minerals and antioxidants to  keep everything nice and tight from the inside out.  Keeping anti libido bad guys from blocking your mojo.

Watermelon has the power of Viagra in its phytonutrients, citrulline.  When citrulline converts to argenine, watch out!.  The effects are a cheaper, healthier method to boost nitric oxide which relaxes blood vessels.

One note: citrulline is actually found in higher concentrations in watermelon rind than in the flesh, but there’s still plenty citrulline in the delicious flesh to make eating it worthwhile.

Prep Time: 20 Mins

Ready In: 20 Mins

Ingredients

  • 3 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil
  • 2 teaspoons white balsamic vinegar
  • 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt
  • 2 cups arugula
  • 2 cups baby spinach leaves
  • 1 cup thinly sliced red onion
  • 1 cup grape tomatoes, halved
  • 1/2 cup crumbled feta cheese
  • 2 cups bite sized watermelon chunks

Directions

1. Whisk the olive oil, white balsamic vinegar, and salt together in a small bowl; set aside.

2. Combine the arugula, spinach, onions, and tomatoes in a large salad bowl. Drizzle the vinaigrette over the salad mixture; toss to coat. Add the feta cheese and watermelon to serve. 

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Selfies for your Pussy Cat. Get it Picture Perfect and Performance Ready

Selfies!  Those wonderful pictures you take of yourself to show just how good you look.  You take special care in your outward appearance and how well you are posed and groomed.  When you take selfies of your pussyCat, you want to take extra care to make sure your kitty is picture perfect and looks to be performance ready.

Your vagina is probably the most important part of a woman’s body to seduce a partner.  It sends out pheromones, naturally occurring chemicals excreted from our bodies, to attract a mate. The trick is once we get the object of our desire, we must make sure it not only looks good enough to eat but is in picture perfect shape!

Groom
Keep your pubic hairs soft to the touch. While in the shower, apply some hair conditioner to your hairs to get your hair touchably soft.

Trim the wild hairs , cut it low or go completely bare with a professional wax. We like a combination.
Not even a cat likes hair balls, so ladies make sure you tame any wild, stray hairs with any of the following methods:

  • You can shave (OUCH!) which will usually last a few days but then you have to deal with the unbearable feeling when those stubbly hairs grow back
  • Use a depilatory cream (pee eww) which lasts a bit longer, usually a couple of weeks and doesn’t come with as much of an annoyance when the hair grows back
  • Opt for a professional wax (OWWWW!!!!) which can last from a month to six to eight weeks and the hair grows in finer each time you wax. Either choice you make will come with some type of hair regrowth sacrifice.

Cleanse
Be performance ready with a gentle cleanser, NOT soap (soap is too drying). Clean the outside of your lips (labia majora), not the inside (labia minora) (introducing any cleansing product to the inside of your lips especially soap will cause an unbalance in the natural healthy bacteria in your vagina – no one wants that!)

Eat
Include fresh fruits, vegetables and fiber to your diet. It will naturally eliminate waste from your body, giving your pretty kitty a delectable flavor and scent. (recommended flavor and scent enhancers to include into your diet: Mint, parsley, kiwi, pineapple, blueberry, cucumbers and strawberry).

Drink
Drink water and PLENTY OF IT! Water not only is great for flushing out your system, but in doing so, it eliminates toxins from your skin, keeping it beautiful and supple.

Moisturize
We all like to slather on our favorite body lotion, but it is not recommended for use near your genitalia. Instead, use natural moisturizers like Shea butter or organic coconut oil to massage into your outer lips and between your thighs.

Go on and grab a mirror and see how pretty your kitty cat looks!  Be Proud!  So show off your picture perfect and performance ready pussy cat.

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No Commitment. No Confusion. Jump Off Rules to Live By

Rules for the jumpoff

People are having more and more sex. According to a recent Trojan condoms survey, the average American is having sex 151 times this year, compared to 120 times last year. With so many people having so much sex, somebody is definitely a jump off.

What is a jump off?

A jump off is a person whose sole purpose is to bring sexual gratification to another person with little effort and little money spent. A jump off is usually a woman, sometimes a man who only sees their “partner” when the partner expresses interest.

How do you know you are a jumpoff?
You don’t have sex with this person regularly. You rarely go out on any dates. You appear at their house or other designated places to have sex at when they are horny. You arrive at odd hours and leave before the neighbors know of your presence.

Were you asked to send any naked pictures of yourself? (you were already considered jump off material).

Consider under what circumstances you two met. Was there drinking? Was it an online meeting, or in a club or bar? and think of how you two ended up in bed. Did this person offer to take you out? (movies don’t count, all you do is sit in the dark and feel each other while the movie is playing – an indication of the fucking that comes later) did anyone Buy you dinner at a real restaurant?

You are told that the person you are jumping off with is single. New flash: Most people are technically single. If they are not married, then they are legally SINGLE. You should ask if there is anyone else in the picture that they are fucking or somehow involved with. Don’t make assumptions that being single means they are alone. What do you think they were doing before you came along?

Once you realize or even suspect that you are a jump off, here are some rules to follow if you want to continue this sexual relationship.

  • Never beg/ask to be kept. If your sex partner tells you out of the blue that they can’t see you, accept that you were a jump off and move on. Asking if there is something you can do to make them stay is worthless unless you can turn yourself into the person they really want to be with.
  •  If you are fucking Multiple other people… Let the other person know.
  • Honesty doesn’t apply to you, the jump off. You are not entitled to anything but the occasional fuck. You will be told any story so you can be fucked and tossed.
  • Accept the occasional calls/texts during normal business hours. Be grateful if you get any outside of that and when that communication stops, chances are your jump off status is done.
  • Social media is great, but don’t go posting ‘woe is me’ status updates on Facebook and Twitter about how you are hurt over being dumped. Just move on to the next. Lesson learned.
  • Never leave any personal items.
  • Keep it to yourself unless you’re promoting a threesome with an even better looking person.
  • There can’t be any babies, so stay on birth control.
  • Do not plan on staying over two hours (cleanup time included).
  • Do not try to tongue kiss.
  • If you two should ever meet in public while with another, ignore them as if you don’t know them, unless they come to you first.

If you are not interested in being someone’s jump off, simply take your time and get to know a person. Follow a rule of five.  Five Real DATES to see where this persons thinking head is at.  If they are only interested in having sex with you, they won’t make it through the rule of five.  If sex is the one thing that attracted you to this person, and you have sex with them soon after the two of you meet, chances are likely that you will be the jump off.

There you have it, in plain english. Theses are the rules– no exceptions– so know your role and play your part.

Make yours a victorious vagina. Releasing the Power of your Pussy.

You’ve heard of it existing.  Maybe you believe you have one.  But men already know of the power of the pussy and how it can bring him to his knees in ecstasy and in some instances, the poor house.

It’s that moment when your pussy is being stroked, and you hear him moan, “mmm, this is some good pussy” Bamm!  That’s your confirmation right there that you have that good good. Sorry to tell you, but…  No, it isn’t.

Men put on verbal performances too (yes, men fake pleasure sounds)  so, ladies we must pay attention to their body language as well as what we hear.

Read on to discover more ways to make him mean it when he tells you that your pussy is good.

While having intercourse, squeeze, I mean really squeeze those kegel muscles! Squeeze on every up stroke if you can.  If you’re too wet or feels too loose, change positions.  Make your vagina the victorious one.

There is no such thing as sex just happening.  Every morning that you wake up is an opportunity to fuck. Make sure you shower and groom yourself every day in preparation for an impromptu romp. If your daily routine includes the gym after work, keep a fresh pack of cleansing wipes designed specifically for a woman’s delicate and most sensitive area. Give him a sweet treat to eat.  Keep some edible dusting powder stored discreetly in a small zippered plastic bag or a stylish compact case.  We prefer the small compact case with hidden compartments, but get two, one for our edible powders and another for our condoms.

Go for pussy power!  Train your pelvic walls.  Do kegel exercises every day, every hour (ok, that may not be possible for some, but on your way to work, in a meeting, during lunch – you get the idea). If you need more resistance for your vaginal walls, purchase pelvic floor exercise tools. They come in different shapes, from eggs to wands, and in a variety of weights.

Keep that kitty pretty. There is no better feeling than undressing and showing off a beautifully adorned kitty cat.  As part of your grooming process, consider changing your hair color down there, or trimming your hair in special designs or shapes.

For the woman who loves glitz and glamour, add some sparkling crystals to your pubic area.  Don’t worry about the crystals as they have adhesive backings so you can reposition them when they get moved around (and they will) during sex.

Claim your victory for your vagina and you too can have power in your pussy.

Tattoo Your Taboo – Being Freak-y is Fabulous

Why aren’t people really comfortable with their sexuality?
In hushed whispers, people will discuss how much of a “freak” they are, but don’t own any sex toys. Not to say that owning sex toys (or a sex toy company) automatically makes you a “freak”, it just shows that you are open to alternative sexual experiences. I love sex toys and all of the sensual accessories that compliment them, but I don’t consider myself to be a “freak”. That term really puts my panties in a bunch. When I was growing up, the only reference to freaks were either in the circus or other sideshow anomaly. I’m no circus performer, nor do I swallow deadly stainless steel swords. (Swallowing other large objects… well, that is another story).  I’m a lover of erotic pleasures. I’m sexually explorative, and very proud of it.  I have embraced my desire to explore sexually stimulating and pleasure enhancing activities. Shit, I’m grown. At least my age says that I am.

The one thing that I marvel at are people who act like they don’t indulge in sex or those people who act like sexcessories are taboo.

Go to any adult novelty store or party and you will find hordes of horny adult women, all of various ages, giggling like little girls over the extensive variety and massive dildos, the sensual oils (perhaps the fantasy of a pair of strong hands rubbing all over their body does wonders) and tasty edibles (are we really still grossed out by the taste of sperm?  Masque it already)

So you know what I say? ”Tattoo your Taboo!” (figuratively of course, however, whether you choose to actually do so is ENTIRELY up to you). Wear it like a badge of honor, own up to it. Let’s dress it up and take the sting out of the word and make it ours.
And let’s face it, circus freaks are called ”freaks” because they are out of the ordinary, uncommon, and entertaining. So when you’re considered ”freak-y” you’re extraordinary! No sexual encounter of any kind leaves a lasting impression if it has been the same old thing. But If you want to do away with the label altogether all you have to do is remember this one thing. The next time someone calls you a “Freak” simply tell them: “No… you’re just boring”.

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