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10 Aphrodisiac Foods To Make Yummy Libido Boosting Dishes

Exotic, Erotic Romantic Dishes

The next time you are in the supermarket, think about what types of aphrodisiac foods to add to your cart so you could turn ordinary dinner into finger licking libido boosting sexy dishes.

Say goodbye to plain ol’ meatloaf and say hello to exotic dishes to get your blood and your partner pumping.

Maybe you can make a meal of each other…

The Dish: Badam Kheer
The Libido Boosting Ingredient(s): Almonds and Cardamom

This is a nutritious Indian sweet served with a meal as a sweet or as a dessert.

It has all the goodness of almonds and the milk and the flavor of saffron and the cardamom. It is also a very easy to make among the almond recipes.

Almonds provide you Vitamin E and help you look younger and to keep fit. They are also good for your skin, reduce cholesterol and boost immunity. It is believed that the aroma stimulates passion. So much so, that it has been reported that Samson enticed Delilah with these testicular looking nuts, and word also has it that Cleopatra dined on an Almond based drink.

Cardamom is a nicely aromatic spice. In many cultures and mystic circles it is viewed as an intensely powerful aphrodisiac, used to cast love spells and also beneficial in treating impotency (mix with maca, Peru’s natural Viagra, for some ‘interesting results’). Maca is high in cineole, which can increase blood flow in certain important areas!

Ingredients:

Raw Almonds – 1 cup
sugar – 1 cup
saffron – few strands
cardamom powder – 1/2 teaspoon
water – 1/2 cup
Ghee (or clarified butter) – 1 tablespoon
Milk – 1 quart

Preparation
Soak almonds in water for about 1 hour.

Peel almonds and grind them to paste using the water. Do not add any extra water.

Cooking Method
1 Heat ghee in a thick bottomed pan. Add almond paste and fry on low flame for 4-5 minutes stirring all the while.

2 Add sugar. Mix well and cook for 5 minutes.

3 Add milk and boil for 15 minutes. Add cardamom powder and saffron strands. It will enhance flavor and color too.
Serve hot or chilled. Enjoy this in the hot summer afternoons, as a cool snack, or as a dessert.

Serves

4-6

The Dish: Marinated Shrimp in Avocado Halves

The Libido Boosting Ingredient: Avocado

High in B6 – said to increase male hormone production. The Mayans and Aztecs called the avocado tree, the Testicle tree because they believed the avocados hang in pairs and resembled testicles hanging from the tree. Avocado’s nutrition actually delivers a mash up of nutrients essential to sexual health, including beta carotene, magnesium and vitamin E, (which is sometimes called the “sex vitamin“). It’s been reported to have been a traditional remedy for erectile dysfunction. As if that isn’t enough for you to grab a nice big avocado the next time you are in the grocery, it also delivers more potassium than a raw banana. Offering 2.4 grams of protein for every 1/2 cup of fruit, an essential ingredient for a successful late night powwow.

Ingredients

1 lb small shrimp, poached and peeled
1/2 cup fresh tomato juice
3 Tbsp cilantro, chopped
2 clove garlic, minced
3 slices sweet onion, finely diced
1 small jicama, diced
1 Jalapeno pepper, seeded, finely diced (optional)
2 lime, juiced
salt and pepper to taste
2 ripe Avocados

Instructions

-Thoroughly mix together all ingredients except the avocados. Refrigerate 30 minutes.
-Just before serving, cut each avocado into halves and take out the seed.
-Spoon marinated shrimp into the avocado halves and serve

The Dish: Pineapple Puffs

Libido Boosting Ingredient: Pineapples

Pineapples not only improves the taste of semen (Yum!), but it is a good source of manganese and vitamin C, and has been historically used to cure impotence. But the unique gift the majestic, pineapple boasts of is its protein digestive enzyme Bromelaine which thins the blood and improves circulation to improve sexual performance.

Prep Time: 10 Mins
Cook Time: 20 Mins
Ready In: 30 Mins

Ingredients

1/2 cup butter, softened
1 cup white sugar
1 egg
1 (8 ounce) can crushed pineapple
2 cups all-purpose flour
1/2 teaspoon salt
1/2 teaspoon baking soda
1 teaspoon baking powder
1/2 teaspoon ground cinnamon

Directions

1 Preheat oven to 350 degrees F (175 degrees C). Grease muffin cups or line with paper muffin liners.

2. In a large bowl, cream together the butter and sugar until light and fluffy. Add the egg; beat well. Stir in the crushed pineapple and its juice. In a large mixing bowl, mix together the flour, salt, baking soda, baking powder and cinnamon. Add this mixture to the pineapple mixture; stir well. Scoop batter into prepared muffin cups.

3 Bake 350 degrees F (175 degrees C) for 20 minutes, or until a toothpick inserted into the center of a muffin comes out clean. Cool for 10 minutes in the pans before removing to a wire rack to cool completely.

The Dish: Pressure Cooker Chili

The Libido Boosting Ingredient(s): Chili

Chili peppers are aphrodisiacs of choice when you are looking to really spice things up because of the its ability to release endorphins from the chemical Capsaicin. Capsaisin stimulates the nerve endings and increases your pulse, makes you sweat and increases sensitivity. Because it mimics what you experience during a stimulating lovemaking session. Besides the spicy taste, chili peppers release endorphins and gives the body a natural high – think of how elated you feel after you’ve climaxed. (on a separate note, you can snack on pineapples sprinkled with chili as a snack for a supercharged boost).

Prep Time: 10 Mins

Cook Time: 20 Mins

Ready In: 35 Mins

Ingredients

1 pound ground beef
2 teaspoons olive oil
1 sweet onion, chopped
1 small green bell pepper, finely chopped
1 jalapeno pepper, seeded and finely chopped
2 cloves garlic, minced
2 (14.5 ounce) cans dark red kidney beans, drained and rinsed
2 (14.5 ounce) cans diced tomatoes, undrained
3 tablespoons tomato paste
1 tablespoon dark brown sugar
2 teaspoons unsweetened cocoa powder
1/4 teaspoon crushed red pepper flakes, or to taste
2 tablespoons chili powder
2 teaspoons ground cumin
1/2 teaspoon kosher salt, or to taste
2 cups water

Directions

1. Place the ground beef in the pressure cooker over medium high heat; cook until brown and crumbly, 8 to 10 minutes. Remove the ground beef, and drain off the excess fat.

2. Return the open pressure cooker to the burner over medium heat, pour in the olive oil, and stir in the onion, green pepper, and jalapeno pepper. Cook and stir for 3 to 4 minutes, until the onion is translucent. Add the garlic, and cook and stir for about 30 more seconds. Return the meat to the pressure cooker; mix in the kidney beans, diced tomatoes, tomato paste, brown sugar, cocoa powder, red pepper flakes, chili powder, cumin, salt, and water.

3. Lock the lid, bring the cooker up to pressure, reduce heat to maintain pressure, and cook for 8 minutes. Remove cooker from the heat, and let the pressure reduce on its own, 5 to 10 minutes.

4. When the pressure is fully released, remove the lid, stir the chili, and serve

The Dish: Soft Gingersnaps

The Libido Boosting Ingredient(s): Ginger and Nutmeg

Ginger improves circulation and is believed by some to be an aphrodisiac food because of its intoxicating scent.

Nutmeg has been known for its intoxicating, and hallucinogenic properties in Europe. Studies were conducted on male rodents using the aphrodisiac spice nutmeg and recorded an increase of the males attempting to mount the female rodents. Gives new meaning to the term, “ooh you dirty rat”.

Prep Time: 30 Mins

Cook Time: 10 Mins

Ready In: 40 Mins

Ingredients

1 1/2 cups butter (no substitutes), softened
2 cups sugar
2 eggs
1/2 cup molasses
4 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
3 teaspoons baking soda
2 teaspoons ground cinnamon
1 teaspoon ground ginger
1 teaspoon ground cloves
1/2 teaspoon salt
1/2 teaspoon ground nutmeg
Additional sugar

Directions

1. In a mixing bowl, cream butter and sugar. Add eggs, one at a time, beating well after each addition. Beat in molasses. Combine the flour, baking soda, cinnamon, ginger, cloves, salt and nutmeg; gradually add to creamed mixture. Refrigerate for 1 hour or until dough is easy to handle.

2. Roll into 1-in. balls; roll in sugar. Place 2 in. apart on ungreased baking sheets. Bake at 350 degrees F for 8-12 minutes or until puffy and lightly browned. Cool for 1 minute before removing to wire racks.

The Dish: Spiced Figs

The Libido Boosting Ingredient(s): Figs This sweet, purple fruit is already a sexy ass fruit in appearance and texture. Plump, succulent looking, and velvety skin. When sliced open, its luscious flesh drips with a floral honey scent, revealing a juicy resemblance to the female sex organ. It has been rumored that the fig has been regarded highly as a sexual stimulant for ages.

Note: This dish is not for a quick fix-me-up, if you want ’em fresh, you’ll have to wait for summer or early Fall.

2 cups white wine vinegar
1 inch (2.5 cm) piece fresh ginger
3 tablespoons allspice
4 blades of mace or 4 teaspoons ground mace
2 cups sugar
Cloves (one per fig)
2 1/2 pounds (1 kg) fresh figs
Juice of one lemon

Bring vinegar, ginger, allspice, mace and sugar to a boil, and simmer for 5 minutes. Push one clove into each fig and add figs to syrup. Return to the boil, then remove from heat. Allow to stand overnight.
Using a slotted spoon, transfer figs to sterilized jars. Reserve syrup.
Return syrup to the boil, add lemon juice, mix well and strain over figs to completely cover. Seal while hot.
You may use Balsamic vinegar if you don’t have lemons.

The Dish: Strawberry Bruschetta

The Libido Boosting Ingredient(s): Strawberries

There’s a good reason strawberries are a popular aphrodisiac food. High in Vitamin C – lush, fragrant strawberries’ have long had a place in romance literature. it is a symbol of sensuality, representing a female nipple, the French used to give newlywed couples strawberry soup to increase their sexual desire. Who knows more about love than the French?

Prep Time: 10 Mins
Cook Time: 5 mins
Ready In: 15 Mins

Ingredients

24 slices French baguette
1 tablespoon butter, softened
2 cups chopped fresh strawberries
1/4 cup white sugar, or as needed

Directions

1. Preheat your oven’s broiler. Spread a thin layer of butter on each slice of bread. Arrange bread slices in a single layer on a large baking sheet.

2. Place bread under the broiler for 1 to 2 minutes, just until lightly toasted. Spoon some chopped strawberries onto each piece of toast, then sprinkle sugar over the strawberries.

3. Place under the broiler again until sugar is caramelized, 3 to 5 minutes. Serve immediately.

The Dish: Stuffed Bell Peppers

The Libido Boosting Ingredient(s): Garlic and Pine Nuts

This dish has a double whammy of ingredients, the Pine Nuts are rich in Zinc, and the garlic contains high levels of Allicin, a compound that can improve blood flow to the sexual organs. But note – just don’t munch on big cloves of raw garlic! Allicin is only produced once garlic has been chopped as it is produced through an enzyme reaction. According to Session Magazine, garlic is the third most powerful aphrodisiac in the world.

Use different colored peppers with this stuffing flavored with onion, garlic, anchovies, raisins, pine nuts, and olives. It is a tantalizing mixture of salty, sweet, savory, and crunchy ingredients. It is served lukewarm, at room temperature.

Prep Time: 15 minutes

Cook Time: 50 minutes

Total Time: 65 minutes

Ingredients:

•4 bell peppers of different colors

•4 Tablespoons, plus 2 Tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil (divided use)

•1 medium white onion, finely diced

•2 garlic cloves, finely chopped

•1 Tablespoon Italian parsley, finely chopped

•4 anchovies, finely chopped

•1 Tablespoon raisins

•1 Tablespoon pine nuts

•2 ounces olives, pitted, drained, and finely ground

•6 Tablespoons bread crumbs

•Salt and pepper

Preparation:Preheat oven to 350 degrees F (175 C).

Wash the bell peppers, cut them in half, and remove the seeds.

In a skillet, pour 4 tablespoons of the extra-virgin olive oil and turn heat to medium.

Saute the onion and garlic, until onion is soft and translucent. Remove the skillet from the heat. Stir in the parsley, anchovies, raisins, pine nuts, ground olives, bread crumbs, salt, and pepper. Drizzle with remaining 2 tablespoons of extra-virgin olive oil. Mix all the ingredients thoroughly.

Fill the bell peppers with the mixture. Place the filled bell peppers side by side in an oiled oven pan. Bake for about 40 minutes, or until the surface is golden.

Remove pan from the oven and let the stuffed peppers cool at room temperature. Serve lukewarm.

The Dish: Vanilla Slice

The Libido Boosting Ingredient(s): Vanilla

There is nothing plain about vanilla as a flavoring. The aroma is reported to soothe and stimulate the female libido. The Aztecs and Mayans knew about the euphoric effects on the brain. It was believed that vanilla made you hot, and ready for sex.

Prep Time: 10 Mins

Cook Time: 20 Mins

Ready In: 30 Mins

Ingredients

1 (17.25 ounce) package frozen puff pastry, thawed
1 cup white sugar
1/2 cup custard powder
3/4 cup cornstarch
5 1/4 cups milk
1/4 cup butter
2 egg yolks
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
1 cup confectioners’ sugar
1 tablespoon milk
1 dash vanilla extract

Directions

1. Preheat the oven to 400 degrees F (200 degrees C). Unfold puff pastry sheets, and place flat onto baking sheets. Bake for 10 to 15 minutes, or until lightly browned and puffed. Set aside.

2. Combine the sugar, custard powder and cornstarch in a large saucepan. Mix in just enough milk to form a paste, then gradually mix in the rest. This will prevent lumps from forming. Add the butter. Cook over medium heat, stirring frequently until thick. You may need to use a whisk to ensure a smooth consistency. When the mixture comes to a simmer, cook stirring constantly for 2 minutes. Remove from the heat, and stir in the egg yolks and vanilla.

3. Line a 9 inch baking dish with aluminum foil. Place one of the baked pastry sheets in the bottom of the dish. Spread the custard filling in an even layer over the pastry, and top with the other sheet.

4. Mix the confectioners’ sugar with 1 tablespoon of milk, and a dash of vanilla to make an icing. Spread over the top of the pastry. Refrigerate until the custard layer is firm. Remove from the pan and slice.

The Dish: Watermelon and Feta Salad with Arugula and Spinach

The Libido Boosting Ingredient(s): Arugula and Watermelon

Arugula, called the rocket seed has been used as far back as the first century A.D to improve male performance. This love drug contains trace minerals and antioxidants to keep everything nice and tight from the inside out. Keeping anti libido bad guys from blocking your mojo.

Watermelon has the power of Viagra in its phytonutrients, citrulline. When citrulline converts to argenine, watch out!. The effects are a cheaper, healthier method to boost nitric oxide which relaxes blood vessels.

One note: citrulline is actually found in higher concentrations in watermelon rind than in the flesh, but there’s still plenty citrulline in the delicious flesh to make eating it worthwhile.

Prep Time: 20 Mins

Ready In: 20 Mins

Ingredients

3 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil
2 teaspoons white balsamic vinegar
1/2 teaspoon kosher salt
2 cups arugula
2 cups baby spinach leaves
1 cup thinly sliced red onion
1 cup grape tomatoes, halved
1/2 cup crumbled feta cheese
2 cups bite sized watermelon chunks

Directions

1. Whisk the olive oil, white balsamic vinegar, and salt together in a small bowl; set aside.

2. Combine the arugula, spinach, onions, and tomatoes in a large salad bowl. Drizzle the vinaigrette over the salad mixture; toss to coat. Add the feta cheese and watermelon to serve.

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February 28, 2014 4

Pucker Up Buttercup – The Art of Kissing

The Art of Kissing

Get ready to pucker up and show off your kissing skills. We are not recommending that you set up your own kissing booth outside of your office, (that would probably be frowned upon in H.R) but if you want to really leave a lasting impression on your love interest, you only have one shot at it, and that one shot is with a kiss.

Why do we kiss? There are many reasons for someone to give another a kiss. Kissing can be a flirtatious gesture. A mother could give her child a kiss on the head or it could be a kiss given as a sign of respect like that of a religious ceremonial kiss. Kisses are exchanged every day by those greeting each other or saying goodbye. We want to know about the art of kissing. We want to know about the kiss that every movie wants to capture and every young couple wants to prove they are best at, the big passionate, tongue tickling kiss that says “I love you”!

First things first, you need to ensure that before you embark on the journey of kissing your loved one that you are ready. So pucker up buttercup, here are a few tips to perfect your pout and make you a great kisser;

Make sure your lips are soft. Exfoliate with a soft, damp toothbrush or washcloth. Moisten your lips – use a lip balm that is unscented if you can, you can’t guarantee that your kissing partner won’t take offense to your cherry scented lip balm.

Ensure you have clean teeth and fresh breath; no one wants to kiss a mouth full of ‘just devoured lunch’, which reeks of garlic or onion! Don’t be so bold and go for one of those curiously strong mints, you’re going for a kiss, not a job interview. Maintain regular dental hygiene — brush, floss and rinse. If you need a quick breath booster, opt for a lemon drop.

Close that mouth! Please do not try to devour the person you are trying to kiss right away. Always start with a closed mouth when kissing, you will certainly be invited by your partner to continue into a more passionate, open mouthed, kiss if you are polite and don’t push too hard.

This is where the fun really starts!

Slowly lean in towards your partners lips

Don’t forget that a kiss isn’t just about your mouth. Use your hands to embrace your partner gently. Hold them close to your body if they allow and enjoy the feeling of closeness that come from a truly loving and passionate kiss.

Swallow- don’t forget to swallow during a long kiss, it may be best to rest for second or two, allowing you both the time to swallow the build up of saliva that will undoubtedly happen. It will also give you a moment to enjoy each other before continuing.

If you use these few tips to kiss you’re sure to get it right. Enjoy each kiss as a moment to embrace your partner’s soul and share your own with them.

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February 12, 2014 1

6 Seductively Simple Ways To Make Love Exciting.

You wake up one day and realize that you have been with the same partner for months and the sex is starting to seem routine. How did that happen? You became comfortable. It’s ok if you didn’t plan on it. Now what? You’re in a relationship and are looking for simple ways to make love exciting again.

It’s too easy to fall into the same routine when you’ve been with your partner for any extended length of time. But we want you to explore six seductive, yet simple ways to make love exciting for you and your partner.

Send dirty text messages.

We don’t know what it is about reading a dirty message from our lover that turns us on so much. All we know is that it works.

Play seductive music.

Before you turn the music on to your favorite station or select your preferred playlist, make sure your partner feels the same way about those tunes the two of you are about to hear. Choose a variety of songs that will probably coincide with your bodies pulsating and gyrating motions. Start off with slow melodies and then work in some heart pounding beats.

Act out fantasy/Role play.

Acting out fantasies don’t require much planning (unless you want to see your partner dressed up in full costume). Use your imagination. Close your eyes. Become the character you want to be. Act out the scene with your partner. Let the moment take over. Take turns in being in control.

Use Sex toys.

Using sensual products like sex toys can add some spice to your lovemaking session. Sex toys as well as all of the other sensual products and intimate accessories have come a long way in the advancement of materials they are made from and have benefited from leading technology enhancements (stronger, quieter motors). Sex toys can be your best friend (or hers) when you are exhausted from pleasing her. Grab a vibrator, or dildo and she can continue the fun while you catch your breath.

Record yourselves making love.

Using either audio recordings or video, creating a keepsake and then listening to and or watching your previous lovemaking session will certainly spark a flame for another round.

Change scenarios.

Change your lovemaking sounds. Change positions. If you normally make love in the bedroom perhaps due to roommates or fear that the kiddies might catch you, don’t start on the bed. Start of by making love up against the wall, sit on a chair, grab hold of the closet rod/dresser, or hold on to the window sill. Whatever, just don’t start off on the bed. If there are no roommates or children to worry about, indulge your passions and embrace your desires… The house is your lovemaking paradise.

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Penis Rings 101

Penis rings, cock rings, pleasure rings, whatever you want to call them, are all designed to achieve the same results. Penis rings are designed to maintain erections and possibly create more intense orgasms. They are worn around the base of the penis, or around the penis and testicles, and restrict the blood flow from leaving the penis.

Reasons To Wear a Penis Ring

Constricting the blood flow to the penis makes the erection give the illusion that the penis is larger than it is. Who wouldn’t want to see a nice stiff erection right before you “do the do”?

Additionally, penis rings can be a fun and exciting addition to anyone’s sex life, whether partnered or flying solo. Rings are most commonly worn for the following reasons:

♦ Creates firmer, longer lasting erections

♦ More intense orgasms

♦ Assists men who have trouble maintaining erections

♦ Gives the penis a different look, making it appear longer

♦ When you find the right penis ring for you, it will just feel good – almost like the penis or testicles have a firm grip around them.

How Do I Measure For a Penis Ring?

To find the right pleasure ring, you will need to do some basic math. Don’t worry, we will not give you a test on it later.

For penis rings to be worn at the base of the penis, take a piece of string or soft measuring tape (like the ones in a fabric store or in grandma’s sewing box) and wrap it around the base of an ERECT penis ONE TIME to get your circumference. For rings worn around the penis AND testicles, measure and wrap around behind the testicles and as close to the body as you can.

Because ring sizes are given in diameter, you will need to divide your number by 3.14
For example – if the penis measures 6″ ÷ 3.14 = 1.91. A ring that is smaller than 1.91″ but within .25″ – .5″ will be needed to ensure a comfortable fit without constricting too much.

What Kind of Ring Should I Choose?

You can select from adjustable (great for beginners – they allow the user to get a feeling of what a penis ring can offer, while also providing the security that the ring can be removed quickly if the sensations become too intense) to non adjustable rings (for the more experienced user and those comfortable with how intense the sensations can be – usually worn behind the testicles). It is important to choose one that has a firm enough grip around the penis, yet is comfortable enough so that it does not completely cut off blood circulation.

How Do I Put on a Penis Ring?

Adjustable rings can be put on at anytime during an erection by simply stretching or strapping the ring so that it fits snugly around the base of the penis or behind the testicles. Since they are flexible, they can also be removed easily at anytime.

Firm non adjustable rings:
Always start with a limp, non-erect (flaccid) penis
Holding the ring under the testicles, insert one testicle at a time
Pull the penis through the ring and adjust for comfort

To remove the firm, non-adjustable ring, the penis must go back down to its flaccid state and then reverse the above steps.

How Long Should I Wear a Penis Ring

To prevent damage or bruising to your penis, a ring should only be worn for no more than 20 minutes. This will prevent the ring from completely constricting blood flow or cause bruising. If any discomfort is felt at any time, the ring should be removed as quickly as possible.

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Guide to Oral Sex

We found this pussy eating instructional an awesome bit of helpful information and we wanted to share it with you. We just wish we could give credit to the author.

GUIDE TO ORAL SEX

by an anonymous woman

How to Eat Pussy

Hey, I have a lot of respect for all you guys who like to eat pussy because there are too few of you out there. And I’m not the only woman who says this. Furthermore, some of you guys who are giving it the old college try are not doing too well, so maybe this little lesson will help you out. When a woman finds a man who gives good head, she’s found a treasure she’s not going to let go of too quickly. This is one rare customer and she knows it. She won’t even tell her girlfriends about it or that guy will become the most popular man in town. So, remember, most guys can fuck, and those who can usually do it satisfactorily, but the guy who gives good head, he’s got it made. Most women are shy about their bodies. Even if you’ve got the world’s most gorgeous woman in bed with you, she’s going to worry about how you like her body. Tell her it’s beautiful, tell her which parts you like best, tell her anything, but get her to trust you enough to let you down between her legs. Now stop and look at what you see. Beautiful, isn’t it? There is nothing that makes a woman more unique than her pussy. I know. I’ve seen plenty of them. They come in all different sizes, colors and shapes; some are tucked inside like a little girl’s cunnie and some have thick luscious lips that come out to greet you. Some are nested in brushes of fur and others are covered with transparent fuzz. Appreciate your woman’s unique qualities and tell her what makes her special. Women are a good deal more verbal than men, especially during love-making. They also respond more to verbal love, which means, the more you talk to her, the easier it will be to get her off. So all the time you’re petting and stroking her beautiful pussy, talk to her about it. Now look at it again. Gently pull the lips apart and look at her inner lips, even lick them if you want to. Now spread the tops of her pussy up until you can find her clit. Women have clits in all different sizes, just like you guys have different sized cocks. It doesn’t mean a thing as far as her capacity for orgasm. All it means is more of her is hidden underneath her foreskin. Whenever you touch a woman’s pussy, make sure your finger is wet. You can lick it or moisten it with juices from inside her. Be sure, by all means, to wet it before you touch her clit because it doesn’t have any juices of it’s own and it’s extremely sensitive. Your finger will stick to it if it’s dry and that hurts. But you don’t want to touch her clit anyway. You have to work up to that. Before she becomes aroused, her clit is too delicate to be handled. Approach her pussy slowly. Women, even more so than men, love to be teased. The inner part of her thigh is her most tender spot. Lick it, kiss it, make designs on it with the tip of your tongue. Come dangerously close to her pussy, then float away. Make her anticipate it. Now lick the crease where her leg joins her pussy. Nuzzle your face into her bush. Brush your lips over her slit without pressing down on it to further excite her. After you’ve done this to the point where your lady is bucking up from her seat and she’s straining to get more of you closer to her, then put your lips right on top of her slit. Kiss her, gently, then harder. Now use your tongue to separate her pussy lips and when she opens up, run your tongue up and down between the layers of pussy flesh. Gently spread her legs more with your hands. Everything you do with a woman you’re about to eat must be done gently. Tongue-fuck her. This feels define. It also teases the hell out of her because by now she wants some attention given to her clit. Check it out. See if her clit has gotten hard enough to peek out of it’s covering. If so, lick it. If you can’t see it, it might still be waiting for you underneath. So bring your tongue up tot he top of her slit and feel for her clit. You may barely experience it’s presence. But even if you can’t feel the tiny pearl, you can make it rise by licking the skin that covers it. Lick hard now and press into her skin. Gently pull the pussy lips away and flick your tongue against the clit, hood covered or not. Do this quickly. This

should cause her legs to shudder. When you sense she’s getting up there toward orgasm, make your lips into an O and take the clit into your mouth. Start to suck gently and watch your lady’s face for her reaction. If she can handle it, begin to suck harder. If she digs it, suck even harder. Go with her. If she lifts her pelvis into the air with the tension of her rising orgasm, move with her, don’t fight her. Hang on, and keep your hot mouth on her clit. Don’t let go. That’s what she’ll be saying too: ‘Don’t stop. Don’t ever stop!’ There’s a reason for that, most men stop too soon. Just like with cock sucking, this is something worth learning about and worth learning to do well. I know a man who’s a lousy fuck, simply lousy, but he can eat pussy like nobody I know and he never has trouble getting a date. Girls are falling all over him. But back to your pussy eating session…There’s another thing you can do to intensify your woman’s pleasure. You can finger-fuck her while she’s enjoying your clit-licking talents. Before, curing or after. She’ll really like it. In addition to the erogenous zones surrounding her clit, a woman has another extremely sensitive area at the roof of her vagina. This is what you rub up against when you’re fucking her. Well, since your cock is pretty far away from your mouth, your fingers will have to do the fucking. Take two fingers. One is too skinny and three is too wide and therefore can’t get deep enough. Make sure they’re wet so you don’t irritate her skin. Slide them inside, slowly at first, then a little faster. Fuck her with them rhythmically. Speed up only when she does. Listen to her breathing. She’ll let you know what to do. If you’re sucking her clit and finger-fucking her at the same time, you’re giving her far more stimulation than you would be giving her with your cock alone. So you can count on it that she’s getting high on this. If there’s any doubt, check her out for symptoms. Each woman is unique. You may have one who’s nipples get hard when she’s excited or only when she’s having an orgasm. Your girl might flush red or begin to tremble. Get to know her symptoms and you’ll be a more sensitive lover. When she starts to have an orgasm, for heaven’s sakes, don’t let go of that clit. Hang in there for the duration. When she starts to come down from the first orgasm, press your tongue along the underside of the clit, leaving your lips covering the top. Move your tongue in and out of her cunt. If your fingers are inside, move them a little too, gently though, things are extremely sensitive just now. If you play your cards right, you’ll get some multiple orgasms this way. A woman stays excited for a full hour after she’s had an orgasm. Do you realize the full impact of that information? The potential? One woman was clocked at 56 orgasms at one sitting. Do you know what effect you would have on a woman you gave 56 orgasms too? She’d be yours as long as you wanted her. The last advice I have for you is this: After you’ve made her come, made her your slave by giving her the best head she’s ever had, don’t leave her alone just yet. Talk to her, stroke her body, caress her breasts. Keep making love to her quietly until she’s come all the way down. A man can get off and go to sleep in the same breath and feel no remorse, no sense of loss. But a woman by nature requires some sensitivity from her lover in those first few moments after sex. Oral sex can be the most exciting sexual experiences you can have. But it’s what you make it. Take your time, practice often, pay attention to your lover’s signals, and most of all, enjoy yourself.

January 17, 2013 1

Selfies for your Pussy Cat. Get it Picture Perfect and Performance Ready

Selfies! Those wonderful pictures you take of yourself to show just how good you look. You take special care in your outward appearance and how well you are posed and groomed. When you take selfies of your pussyCat, you want to take extra care to make sure your kitty is picture perfect and looks to be performance ready.

Your vagina is probably the most important part of a woman’s body to seduce a partner. It sends out pheromones, naturally occurring chemicals excreted from our bodies, to attract a mate. The trick is once we get the object of our desire, we must make sure it not only looks good enough to eat but is in picture perfect shape!

Groom
Keep your pubic hairs soft to the touch. While in the shower, apply some hair conditioner to your hairs to get your hair touchably soft.

Trim the wild hairs , cut it low or go completely bare with a professional wax. We like a combination.
Not even a cat likes hair balls, so ladies make sure you tame any wild, stray hairs with any of the following methods:

You can shave (OUCH!) which will usually last a few days but then you have to deal with the unbearable feeling when those stubbly hairs grow back
Use a depilatory cream (pee eww) which lasts a bit longer, usually a couple of weeks and doesn’t come with as much of an annoyance when the hair grows back
Opt for a professional wax (OWWWW!!!!) which can last from a month to six to eight weeks and the hair grows in finer each time you wax. Either choice you make will come with some type of hair regrowth sacrifice.

Cleanse
Be performance ready with a gentle cleanser, NOT soap (soap is too drying). Clean the outside of your lips (labia majora), not the inside (labia minora) (introducing any cleansing product to the inside of your lips especially soap will cause an unbalance in the natural healthy bacteria in your vagina – no one wants that!)

Eat
Include fresh fruits, vegetables and fiber to your diet. It will naturally eliminate waste from your body, giving your pretty kitty a delectable flavor and scent. (recommended flavor and scent enhancers to include into your diet: Mint, parsley, kiwi, pineapple, blueberry, cucumbers and strawberry).

Drink
Drink water and PLENTY OF IT! Water not only is great for flushing out your system, but in doing so, it eliminates toxins from your skin, keeping it beautiful and supple.

Moisturize
We all like to slather on our favorite body lotion, but it is not recommended for use near your genitalia. Instead, use natural moisturizers like Shea butter or organic coconut oil to massage into your outer lips and between your thighs.

Go on and grab a mirror and see how pretty your kitty cat looks! Be Proud! So show off your picture perfect and performance ready pussy cat.

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August 2, 2012 0

Not Your Rx’s Performance Enhancers

You’ve met someone new. You’ve talked, maybe even gone out. The chemistry is there and this person’s sexual energy definitely has you interested.

You get together for your first sexual encounter and… Hmm, the performance wasn’t that great and you excuse it, thinking maybe it’s nerves, first time jitters.

The conversations between you two continue and your partner describes how they’ll make such passionate love to you that you willingly allow a second chance.

Again, they disappoint you. Maybe they weren’t feeling well and possibly tired. Whatever the case may be, each time the sex just doesn’t live up to your standards. You continue seeing the person, perhaps they fill a different void, but how do you improve their performance with you?

If their poor performance is not related to size, but rather a technique issue, then you are in luck. If your partner is blessed with the perfect length and girth for you, but they just can’t seem to maneuver themselves, and you want to stay with them, try these tips.

Include role play

Act out what you want done as if you are someone else. Your partners feelings won’t get damaged when you pretend.

Extend foreplay

Include sex toys like penis extenders, bullets, dildos, etc. Watch a porno movie together and point out the actors performance as something you want done to you. (hopefully, your partner is receptive to making these necessary changes, otherwise you will just need to throw in the towel and find someone else.)

Do the work yourself. You can’t send a boy to do a man’s job. If you want it done right, do it yourself. Put on your big girl seductive look, pull your dildo out and pleasure yourself. Or just get on top of him and ride him like a cowgirl!

All in all, people are visual creatures and they’re very hands on, so teach by doing and showing. Place your hand over his and guide him in the ways you liked to be handled. Give him a little vocal encouragement by throwing in some of these: ”Ooh I like how THAT feels” or ”I like it better when you do it like THIS” and if he is willing to pleasure you, he’ll make sure to follow your instructions.

Remember, everyone’s body is different and reacts differently to certain things. Different strokes for different folks, if you catch my drift. Give him time to learn yours. He can’t read minds and your body doesn’t come with a manual. After all, communication is key in every aspect of a relationship, sex included.

July 19, 2012 0

No Commitment. No Confusion. Jump Off Rules to Live By

Rules for the jumpoff

People are having more and more sex. According to a recent Trojan condoms survey, the average American is having sex 151 times this year, compared to 120 times last year. With so many people having so much sex, somebody is definitely a jump off.

What is a jump off?

A jump off is a person whose sole purpose is to bring sexual gratification to another person with little effort and little money spent. A jump off is usually a woman, sometimes a man who only sees their “partner” when the partner expresses interest.

How do you know you are a jumpoff?
You don’t have sex with this person regularly. You rarely go out on any dates. You appear at their house or other designated places to have sex at when they are horny. You arrive at odd hours and leave before the neighbors know of your presence.

Were you asked to send any naked pictures of yourself? (you were already considered jump off material).

Consider under what circumstances you two met. Was there drinking? Was it an online meeting, or in a club or bar? and think of how you two ended up in bed. Did this person offer to take you out? (movies don’t count, all you do is sit in the dark and feel each other while the movie is playing – an indication of the fucking that comes later) did anyone Buy you dinner at a real restaurant?

You are told that the person you are jumping off with is single. New flash: Most people are technically single. If they are not married, then they are legally SINGLE. You should ask if there is anyone else in the picture that they are fucking or somehow involved with. Don’t make assumptions that being single means they are alone. What do you think they were doing before you came along?

Once you realize or even suspect that you are a jump off, here are some rules to follow if you want to continue this sexual relationship.

Never beg/ask to be kept. If your sex partner tells you out of the blue that they can’t see you, accept that you were a jump off and move on. Asking if there is something you can do to make them stay is worthless unless you can turn yourself into the person they really want to be with.
If you are fucking Multiple other people… Let the other person know.
Honesty doesn’t apply to you, the jump off. You are not entitled to anything but the occasional fuck. You will be told any story so you can be fucked and tossed.
Accept the occasional calls/texts during normal business hours. Be grateful if you get any outside of that and when that communication stops, chances are your jump off status is done.
Social media is great, but don’t go posting ‘woe is me’ status updates on Facebook and Twitter about how you are hurt over being dumped. Just move on to the next. Lesson learned.
Never leave any personal items.
Keep it to yourself unless you’re promoting a threesome with an even better looking person.
There can’t be any babies, so stay on birth control.
Do not plan on staying over two hours (cleanup time included).
Do not try to tongue kiss.
If you two should ever meet in public while with another, ignore them as if you don’t know them, unless they come to you first.

If you are not interested in being someone’s jump off, simply take your time and get to know a person. Follow a rule of five. Five Real DATES to see where this persons thinking head is at. If they are only interested in having sex with you, they won’t make it through the rule of five. If sex is the one thing that attracted you to this person, and you have sex with them soon after the two of you meet, chances are likely that you will be the jump off.

There you have it, in plain english. Theses are the rules– no exceptions– so know your role and play your part.

July 17, 2012 0

Make yours a victorious vagina. Releasing the Power of your Pussy.

You’ve heard of it existing. Maybe you believe you have one. But men already know of the power of the pussy and how it can bring him to his knees in ecstasy and in some instances, the poor house.

It’s that moment when your pussy is being stroked, and you hear him moan, “mmm, this is some good pussy” Bamm! That’s your confirmation right there that you have that good good. Sorry to tell you, but… No, it isn’t.

Men put on verbal performances too (yes, men fake pleasure sounds) so, ladies we must pay attention to their body language as well as what we hear.

Read on to discover more ways to make him mean it when he tells you that your pussy is good.

While having intercourse, squeeze, I mean really squeeze those kegel muscles! Squeeze on every up stroke if you can. If you’re too wet or feels too loose, change positions. Make your vagina the victorious one.

There is no such thing as sex just happening. Every morning that you wake up is an opportunity to fuck. Make sure you shower and groom yourself every day in preparation for an impromptu romp. If your daily routine includes the gym after work, keep a fresh pack of cleansing wipes designed specifically for a woman’s delicate and most sensitive area. Give him a sweet treat to eat. Keep some edible dusting powder stored discreetly in a small zippered plastic bag or a stylish compact case. We prefer the small compact case with hidden compartments, but get two, one for our edible powders and another for our condoms.

Go for pussy power! Train your pelvic walls. Do kegel exercises every day, every hour (ok, that may not be possible for some, but on your way to work, in a meeting, during lunch – you get the idea). If you need more resistance for your vaginal walls, purchase pelvic floor exercise tools. They come in different shapes, from eggs to wands, and in a variety of weights.

Keep that kitty pretty. There is no better feeling than undressing and showing off a beautifully adorned kitty cat. As part of your grooming process, consider changing your hair color down there, or trimming your hair in special designs or shapes.

For the woman who loves glitz and glamour, add some sparkling crystals to your pubic area. Don’t worry about the crystals as they have adhesive backings so you can reposition them when they get moved around (and they will) during sex.

Claim your victory for your vagina and you too can have power in your pussy.

July 11, 2012 0

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