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Improving Relationships, One Fucking Couple at a Time

Improving Relationships, One Fucking Couple at a Time

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Open Up – When you need to get something off your chest, but your BF is the judge-y type

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I am opening up because I need an answer. Where are the good men?  I meet a potential mate, but then somewhere, early on, things don’t seem to work.  Help me figure this one out.

Q:  I keep falling for the same type of guy? I’m educated, I have a great career, but I still find myself with the same type of man who loves me, then leaves me.  I have a college degree, am established in my career and I know what I want in a man.  A man who is educated, single, no drama, earns more than I do, and knows how to pamper a woman. What is wrong with me? Am I asking for too much?

A:  Man! oh man, are we all too familiar with THIS scenario.  First off, the good men ARE out there.  It’s how you present yourself initially that determines how you will be treated. You sometimes have to fall back in your interactions with men.  Men don’t always want an independent woman who not only knows that she is independent, but embraces her independence.  What would he be needed for if a woman touts her accomplishments but doesn’t allow the man to lead, in the traditional sense. If all you want is attention, you don’t need a man, you need a pet.

Did You Know? You are Smothering your Vagina! Why you should stop

Don’t you just love frilly little panties?  oh the cute nylon panties that beg to be seen.  But did you know that nylon panties, especially the ones with the carefully placed cotton liners are actually smothering your vagina and keeping it from getting air down there?

The vagina needs air, as much as it needs water to hit it every once in a while.  Skip the panties some days, and just go commando.

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Shop the Perfect Gifts – 14 Unique Gifts this Holiday Season

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Did You Know – What is in Ejaculate?

You are what you eat.  At least that is what has been hammered in our brains since the food pyramid became popular.  But the good news is that the healthy foods your body takes in, eventually come out.  But not in a way you may think.

proteins in ejaculate

Both male and female ejaculate contains carbs, amino acids, and proteins.  When the ejaculate fluid dries, it will dry yellowish depending on the amount of protein in the secretion.  The higher the protein found in the secretions of the ejaculate, the more yellow it will dry

Ordinary Life is Not Interesting

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Did You Know?

Life is a lot like toilet paper.  You’re either on a roll, or taking shit from some asshole

The pressure is on, I fear I might leak.
A bush or toilet is what I seek.
Don’t make me laugh or sit on my belly,
And having to hold it makes my legs jelly.
Don’t make sounds of water or don’t even tickle
Or I may dance in pain or let out a trickle.

As necessary as going to the bathroom to relieve yourself may be, you may be disturbed to know that almost all toilet paper has formaldehyde and chlorine residue on them.

Do you want your bottom to smell like formaldehyde, the chemical that is used in some funeral homes to embalm the deceased?  We don’t.

Looking to Reconnect With Your Mate? Try Using Your Senses

If you’ve been with your partner for years, then you know how easy it is to fall out of like (or even love) with them.  You probably fell into the same old mundane routine that most long-term committed couples go through:

Wake up, go to work, come home, eat (maybe you have dinner together, maybe not).  It’s easy to feel disconnected from your partner after you have put in time together.

Look inside of your soul for the person you loved.  Reconnect with your partner, and remember how pleasurable they once were, just by using your senses.

When it comes to reconnecting with your mate you want to:

  • Start with a gentle touch.  Caress your lover with long sensual strokes up and down the curves of their body. Feel how wonderful their skin feels against tips of your fingers.
  • Embrace your partner as if it is the first time the two of you have been together.  Pull your lover closer to you, as if you never want to let them go.
  • Use your tongue and taste their flesh.  Allow your lips to ever so gently graze theirs, while you drink in the sweet saltiness of their essence.
  • Inhale your partners fragrance.  Burrow your nose deeply into them and enjoy their aura.  Your love is better than the fragrance of your perfume.
  • Look at how beautiful you are in your lovers’ eyes! Gaze at your partner.  Look into their soul and be reminded of how you once felt and relax knowing that the fire is still there for you.

Always remember…Love is patient

Did You Know? You are washing your panties the wrong way

“Pleasing is the fragrance of your fruit”

Is there anything more intoxicating than the heady scent coming from a woman?  I dare say no.  Ok, usually not.  But in order to enjoy that perfume that spreads from our legs to tickle the senses, we must be clean.  Not just cleaning our ladybits, but also the panties we wear.

When washing our undies, we should use a mild, unscented detergent that is free of perfumes and dyes.  Think baby detergent.  It’s gentle enough not to irritate a baby’s new, and delicate skin, so it will be gentle enough on our most intimate areas.

  • After washing your undies, use the extra rinse cycle on your machine if available.
  • Avoid using fabric dryer sheets – they leave residue on the fabric and when it come in contact with your delicate areas, it can rub off and cause skin irritation.  (If you want your panties to smell like a garden or some other heavenly body, use potpourri or drawer sachets instead).

Everybody Should Know This About Anal Sex

Once upon a time, Bob wanted his girlfriend, Sally to engage in Heterosexual Anal Intercourse. Sally, being the good 20 something girl that she is, said, oh no, I can’t do that – it’s bad, none of my friends are into that!.  Well, hold on for a second, Sally, recent discoveries in the National Institute of Health Library of Medicine say otherwise.

Anal sex. Butt Fucking.  Digging down in the brown eye.  No matter what term you use for Rear Entry Intercourse, anal sex is very popular among heterosexual women between the ages of 15 – 44.

Anal Sex Popular Among This Group

In the past 12 months, researchers have discovered that heterosexual anal intercourse is prevalent in women with higher incomes and education levels.  Hey now! No one ever tells you that on college tours.  Enjoying anal sex is another reason to go to college and get that degree.

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So for all of you Sally’s out there, ride Sally ride! Why? Because the anus if full of sensitive nerve endings that feel amazing when stimulated with a well- lubricated finger, anal specific pleasure item, or penis.

 

 

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