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4 Simple Steps for Attracting and Keeping Love (before and after Valentine’s Day)

Ahh, Valentines Day; a day devoted to displays of affection. Yet it can be a depressingly heart-wrenching day of the year if  you are not in a passionate relationship. Uggh. You wish there was a magic spell to cast for finding true love and happiness.

“Love is friendship that has caught fire. It is quiet understanding, mutual confidence, sharing and forgiving. It is loyalty through good and bad times. It settles for less than perfection and makes allowances for human weaknesses.” — Ann Landers

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You’ve done it all. Blind dates, supermarket stakeouts, and the online dating scene, yet you still strike out when it comes to finding l’amour.  We go to extremes trying to attract the perfect mate: tucking things, plucking thing, taping things, dying and frying things to get that special someone to notice you.  It’s frustrating to say the least. What’s worse is that even the mean cross-eyed receptionist in the doctors office is now engaged.

Your last resort would be to try and conjure up a love spell. Do they work?  Who knows.

Take heart.  Love requires planning and maneuvering.   Now is the time that you take a long look in the mirror and ask yourself, what signals am I sending out?

But before you cross the enchanted bridge and begin to entice the divine powers, envision the person you want to become in order to attract the love that you want.

  • Light a soft pink candle.
  • Relax in a tub filled with sea salt and essential oils, like chamomile, Jasmine, lavender, rosemary, or rose.
  • Visualize white light surrounding you and begin meditating on how you can improve yourself.
  • Cover your bed in red or pink petals, and enjoy all of you, that you have to offer.

We’ve done crazy things to invoke the love goddess and did everything we could to welcome Cupid into our life.  What have you done to attract love?  Tell us:

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Aphrodisiac Drinks to Stimulate Your Senses

Aprodisiac : n – arousing sexual desire. From the Greek word relating to love or desire.

Aphrodisiac drinks are a great way to add naturally stimulating ingredients to boost your libido.  Adding alcohol to your libations help you relax and get you in the mood.  Make a toast with that special someone, even if that special someone is YOU, with any one of these seductive concoctions.  With ingredients like cardamom, ginger, these drinks are sure to arouse sexual desires.

Cupid’s Kiss

Courtesy of  Lords of the Drinks

Cupid's Kiss image -Lords of the Drinks
Cupid’s Kiss image -Lords of the Drinks

How can a cocktail with this name not lead to success right?!? The first girl that doesn’t like chocolate, the main ingredient of this drink, probably still hasn’t been born. Chocolate is also a major aphrodisiac – just like cherries – and in combination with alcohol you have a dangerous weapon on your hands.
Ingredients:
1.5 parts wild cherry infused vodka
1.5 part coconut flavored vodka
1.5 part dark chocolate liqueur
1 splash of chocolate syrup
cocoa powder
Preparation: Put the vodka’s, chocolate and chocolate syrup in an iced shaker and shake it vigorously. Pour in a chocolate rimmed cocktail glass and add cocoa to the rim to finish this drink off.

How can you resist the alluring scent of cardamom?  Cardamom is a nicely aromatic spice. In many cultures and mystic circles it is viewed as an intensely powerful aphrodisiac.  These ingredients combined turn this sophisticated drink into a romantic soft pink shade.

Cardamom Rose Cocktail: cardamom rose drink design spong

courtesy Design Sponge

Ingredients:

1.5 oz of Hendrick’s gin (this is a rose and cucumber infused gin)

.75 oz of rose water syrup

.25 oz of fresh lemon juice

.75 oz of fresh grapefruit juice (ruby red preferably)

2 dashes of Peychauds bitters

1 cardamom pod

Preparation:

1) Lightly muddle 1 cardamom pod at the bottom of shaker (not too much muddling or it will overpower the drink)

2) Add the rest of the ingredients

3) Add ice

4) Shake for 20 seconds

5) Strain over fresh ice to remove the cardamom pod

6) Add a splash of seltzer water

7) Garnish with rose petals or fresh lemon wedge (use organic if possible)

Honeymoon honey wineHoneymoon Martini

courtesy of Honeymoon Honey Wine

3 oz Honeymoon Honey Wine
2 Maraschino Cherries
1.5 oz Premium Vodka
2 Dashes Grenadine
Pour Honeymoon Honey Wine®, Premium Vodka and Two Dashes of Grenadine into a cocktail shaker half-filled with ice. Place the cherries into a chilled cocktail glass. Shake well and strain the honeymoon mixture
over the cherries. The Honeymoon Martini is Pink & Sweet

Honeymoon Honey Wine Martini
Honeymoon Honey Wine Martini
Looking for more?  Check out these Libido Boosting Recipes to compliment your aphrodisiac drinks.
After all is said and done, remember, the best aphrodisiacs are words.  Tell your significant other how much they mean to you.
Leave a comment below on your favorite aphrodisiac to get you in the mood.

Blow Job 101 – A Beginners Guide to Performing Like a Pro.

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People, people, people!  When you are trying to figure out how to give a man a blow job like a pro, there are some basic techniques that you want to follow. Too many people get caught up in the act of giving head that they forget that they can use the ENTIRE MOUTH: tongue, lips and teeth (only gently).  Become familiar with your man’s entire shaft.  Massage him completely with your tongue.  Hold his penis with a firm grip starting from the base and begin to really show it some attention.  Lick and kiss all over your man, tracing the full length of his manhood with your lips and tongue.

But that’s not all, there is more to expertly giving head than just holding your man in your mouth and sucking.  Discover some important how to tips on how to satisfy your man with an impressive oral sex performance.

Watch your attitude! It’s blow job basics to love a cheerful giver, so be generous and get into the spirit of giving when you’re about to give a man a blow job.

Offer to give head – Be warned:  You must be confident to do this.  Confidence is sexy.  Although this may seem simple enough to do, a lot of men say that they lose interest in a woman if they have to ask for oral pleasure.  So, step up to the mic and tell your man, “drop your pants and gimme 10!” (inches, that is). Besides, when you’re exceptional at your talents, show off! Who can turn down a great offer.

Watch your mouth! Most men don’t  like to have their sensitive skin scraped by sharp teeth when they are in the throes of passion.  Here’s a tip to prevent grinding against your partners magic stick.  Let your mouth fill with spit (yes the wetter, the better).
Really stretch your mouth open as if to make a big O with your lips. Take him inside of your mouth and suck him in. Use your cheek muscles to get the perfect suction and go down, down baby.

Take it to the top – The head of the penis is extremely sensitive.  Use your tongue to firmly caress the entire bulbous mound, then take him in and give him your best wet oral performance.  Unlike some women who prefer a gentle approach, men tend to prefer a more vigorous touch.

Bouncing Balls – Be easy on his balls (the nut sack or scrotum).  The testes are very sensitive.  Tenderly, squeeze his testicles either with your mouth or your hands by cupping them.  Gently, and we cannot stress this enough, gently massage his balls, but too much and you may find your aggressive attempt at seduction leaving your partner quivering in pain.

When you have the skill to delicately massage his balls in your mouth, remember to stroke the shaft.  Keep your well lubricated hands all over him. He’s going to be more receptive to you at this time.

Send a bing-bong to his ding dong.  Once you have him inside the depth of your mouth, send him a message via sound and vibration. Make some Noise!!!!  No, not any kind of noise.  Don’t worry about what your mother said about making noise while you have something in your mouth. Savor the flavor of your partner.  Make a delicious sound of slurping and humming and moaning while you are licking and sucking.  Wait, we need a break… Ok, what were we talking about?  Oh yeah, you want your partner into it, so you need to be into it as well.  A nice hum from your mouth while performing oral sex can simulate the gentle vibration he would get from a mini vibrator.

Go for a happy ending.  Put it in your mouth.  Not into swallowing your partner’s load? Play with his cum in your mouth.  Blow big semen filled bubbles.  Or let him release himself on you.  Embrace the milky shower your partner shared with you.
BONUS:  Rub it in.  Go on, rub his semen on you.  Using his semi erect penis, massage all of his creamy semen all over your face.  This bold seductive act shows him that you love every inch of him.  If you’re daring, you can even lightly tap your face if he is still leaking to get every last drop

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Just a Quick Note About Us

What inspires you, inspires Us.

The inspiration for Embracedesires started with white sheets covered in rose petals… candle flames dancing eagerly against the shadows. The vision continued with a bottle of massage oil and strong hands pressed against waiting flesh… flesh held taught by tantalizing nipple clamps and tongue tingling nip balm. The moment continued with a vibrating probe eagerly reaching and teasing wet mounds. A massaging couples ring adding to the penetrating pulse of the moment.

Since 2003 we’ve specialized in intimate products and sensual accessories that are designed to indulge your most passionate moments. We believe the visual imagery of any product is just as important as the performance. So instead of gaudy, we sought out gorgeous. We looked for luscious and sensuous.

Products that not only bring you to the brink of eyes rolled back, but that look delightful… taste delicious… and seat you first-class within your favorite fantasies. Over the years, the product lines we carry have always reflected these values.

We embrace free spirits, be you male or female, who seek sumptuous choices in their sex product collection. Those midnight riders who know that one way to man’s heart is sliding seductively down a stripper pole. Those seeking domineering delights filled with arms handcuffed to the headboard… feet spread eagle and bondage taped… and a Please Sir flogger stinging to sweet submission.

If this is you, the door is open. Step inside and be delighted…

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Things to do for your partner on Valentines Day

Do it the Write way

Write a love note, or a few simple phrases on a blank card or nice paper and leave it for them to see.

Take a Vacation

Unable to take that fantasy vacation? Find a quiet place somewhere in your house, then transform it with pictures or cushions. Or take a trip to your local botanical garden, beach, lake or park and call it your own “paradise”. Don’t forget to bundle up if it’s cold.

Include the family

For those with children, include them in this special celebration of love.  Give them little candies and cards.  Or set aside time to make cards and special meals together.

Throw caution to the wind

If you don’t mind the crowds or the wait go to your favorite restaurant. If you forgot to or just cannot get reservations to your favorite restaurant, check the local listings of culinary school students who are willing to cater your favorite or new favorite meal.

Most importantly, show your partner and your family love every day.  Don’t wait for a specific date to celebrate. Be affectionate to one another.  Be afraid not of what others will think if you are; concern yourself when you cease to shower your partner with love.

Hope for the single person

You are not alone.  Call up some of your friends who are also without partners or for those whose partners can’t be with them on Valentine’s Day). Have a potluck “Love Celebration”.  Celebrate friendships, companionship, celebrate life.

Toast to all the loves you all have had and toast to the love yet to come.

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The Body Diet

You’ve seen it happen.  A baby cries for no reason.  You reach down to touch that gentle infant and miraculously, the baby stops crying. 

Your body is no different from that baby’s.  In fact, your body requires touch just as much as a baby does.  In the absence of human physical contact, we begin to lose ourselves.  Our bodies become depraved, and like a failed diet, when we starve our bodies we subsequently starve our minds of one of our senses. We overcompensate for the loss of that sense.  We go through withdrawal. 

Instead of represssing your desires to touch and be touched, passionately grab your partner and reintroduce your hands to their body.

Begin with gentle strokes along the outline of your lovers face with the tips of your fingers.  Trace the curves of your partners’ body with your hands and delight in each fleshy, firm mound you come across.

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